Hello. I have a lump on my perineum, I’m a female btw. So the lump gets hard whenever I poop or whenever I have sex with my partner, it’s uncomfortable. It’s been there for a couple of months now.
You need to see your doctor about this. Anytime there is lump, swelling, pain, etc. its' a signal something is wrong. I don't think this is serious, but you HAVE to call your doctor. Good luck.