Hi kittens. So very sorry to hear that you're having this round of possible stone problems. You've asked for opinions and advice and I'll answer you as bluntly as I can with my opinion. GET YOUR BUTT TO THE ER ASAP!!
Who cares if someone THINKS you're being foolish? "Someone, whoever that may be is NOT in your shoes with this problem! The continued pain you are experiencing and the mental anguish from worry that you're having, in my opinion, together outweigh any other considerations and especially someone else's thinking you may "look" foolish! Besides, if "someone" is that ignorant, who cares what they think anyway!? Oh, and obviously I don't think you are "over reacting" or "wasting everyone's time" either!
If it were me in your position right now, I'd be marching my behind down to the ER tonight to get this all checked out and KNOW for sure what is going on! It'll be better for your physical health, your mental health and ultimately for those two little toddlers to have a much more relaxed momma caring for them too.
The worst thing that can happen is that you find out that you don't have another huge blockage, doing more damage to an already damaged kidney, and then that heavy worry weight will lifted from your shoulders. You'd also probably know what is then causing you your discomfort so it can be addressed medically too.
Good Luck kittens and PLEASE let us know whats what.
Hey, I haven't been on in a while but wanted to thank you for your advice which I did heed. I went to the er and was found to have 3 stones partially obstructing my ureter. None are big but together are a problem. I have my lithotripsy scheduled for tomorrow afternoon assuming I still haven't passed them. Certainly doesn't feel like it lol. Just wanted to say thanks again for the great advice!
You are VERY WELCOME and I'm glad you went to the ER and determined what was causing you this problem. PLEASE let us know how you make out after your procedure. Good Luck!!