Hello,
I'm a 32 year old woman and since April of 2018, I have been feeling extremely ill with a slew of symptoms that are not normal for me personally. Also, I never know if the symptoms I'm describing are all related, but since they are not normal for me and they all started at the same time (almost overnight) I usually mention them.
My first symptoms were swollen lymph nodes on the back of my neck which subsided about 2 months after first coming on, a swollen lymph node on the right side of my neck behind my ear that grew overnight and has stayed hard, fixed, and swollen since April, difficulty breathing (a painful feeling, like when you breath in very cold air) especially on exertion although I was extremely active and fit when the symptoms started, painful joints, face/hand/knee rashes, extreme fatigue and weakness (often cannot walk up stairs, cannot hold things for more than 10 seconds, cannot carry on a conversation for more than a few minutes without feeling exhausted, etc.), lesions in my nose and on scalp, itchiness which feels deep and "un-itchable"(if that makes sense!), restless legs, drooping of right eyelid and side of mouth. One of my most troublesome symptoms is severe, painful stomach aches upon eating or drinking anything, even water. The pain in high up, right below my sternum, and feels like my stomach is full of food, even after waking up and not having eaten for 10 hours. I also had low vitamin D (14ng/mL ref. 30-100ng/mL) and hypochromic, microcytic anemia when my blood was first tested. Both of which I was put on a supplement for, but have not felt any better with these supplements. I also went on antibiotics but did not feel better.
This might not be related, but I went to an oral surgeon in December and was told I have stage V TMJ derangement (severe joint deformity with degenerative condylar changes). The oral surgeon said he thought it was from an underlying autoimmune condition or degenerative disease).
In the past two months (since December 2018), I have been having really intense night sweats, a lower back discomfort that is not quite painful but instead a deep ache that won't get better with stretching, heat, massage, etc. and that is much worse at night/when lying down. and have experienced such worsening fatigue to the extent that I often miss work and have missed over two weeks combined since December. My PCP referred me to an ENT to have a lymph node biopsy a few weeks ago (he specifically mentioned Lymphoma), but the ENT said that because my lymph node was only 9mm, she would not biopsy because there would literally be nothing that would show up because it's not active. I had read a little about the sizes of lymph nodes in prep for a possible biopsy and had seen that it might be useful in some cases to biopsy if the lymph node is under 1cm? Also, I feel like for months and months the lymph node has been much bigger, sometimes people comment how they can see it.
I have been tested for a bunch of autoimmune diseases, as that was what it was first thought to be, but none came back as being positive (Lupus, RA, Scleroderma, Celiac, IBD, Thyroid Disease, Myasthenia Gravis), as well as negative for Lyme Disease, Mono, HIV, EBV, etc.
I have had some abnormalities in my blood in addition to the nutrient deficiencies, including very low ANA (1.27, 1:80), elevated ESR and CRP, elevated platelets.
My real question is...does it seem like I should press for a biopsy or some kind of imaging of my lymph node or of my back or anything? I definitely trust that the doctors I've seen know what they're doing, but I just feel so incredibly ill that my main concern is I will be unable to work soon and not have insurance for tests or treatment and so am trying to get to the bottom of it before this happens. My PCP didn't seem concerned that the ENT didn't want to biopsy and just wants to "wait and see" how I feel, but I don't feel like I have time to wait, as each day I feel sicker and less able to go to work, doctor's appointments (let alone do literally anything I used to enjoy doing!).
Thank you so, so much for reading through this and for any advice you might be able to offer.