I just searched online for
llmd staten island
and got a bunch of hits. Try it!
Welcome to the very strange world of Lyme! Your experience sounds very much like what many, many of us have been through. You got me beat on the number of docs you saw, tho: I 'only' had to go through 20 to get diagnosed properly, compared to your 30!
The system here blocks email addresses, but if you look at the top of the page in the upper right, you'll see 'inbox.' If there is a private message for you there, there will be a little number, like 'inbox (1)'. Click on it and you'll find the message there.
Someone here recently recommended a doc in NY, I recall -- you might search in the 'search' box at the top of this page for 'new york' or 'nyc'.
Also check the ILADS [dot] org website, which is the main Lyme doc group, and I am told they have a referral function, but I haven't used it.
Also, Columbia U medical center has a Lyme research center, but I don't know that they take patients or make referrals. They are very cutting edge at Columbia. Check their website.
I'm guessing someone will post a message here to respond to your request in the next day or so ... if not, post again, and we'll see what we can find.
fwiw, infectious disease docs are, along with rheumatologists, the biggest 'Lyme deniers' out there. So the reaction you got from the ID doc is not a surprise. I got the same routine out here in California, where docs are also known to say, 'We don't have Lyme here.'
Once you find a doc you click with, life will start to get better. Hang in there! You are now officially on your way to getting better.