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518031 tn?1295575374

Venting and whinning

I am writing this post for a couple of reasons.. someone earlier started a thread on what really is a true friend.. got me to trhinking about a couple of things.. a friend of ours from med help is having a hard time right now with pain control. if this person wants you all to know who it is they will tell you all.. i dont think it is my place to say, anyways they wrote a comment the other day about how ythey were having many problems with pain and other things mewdically going on, so i pm'd them and told them if there was anything i coulkd do let me know, well i got a pm from them to day explaining what they were going thru and then apoligized for whinning too much .. well as far as i am concerned we all need at times  to vent and whine.. most of us here experience severe pain at times and some times even meds dont help. now i know we know each other just by chatting on a computer.. but we are freinds.. so i am asking everybody and i am 99 % sure that most already do, when someone needs to vent or whine we all listen try to give the best advice we can and try to brighten their day the best we can.. so what i guess i am really trying to say is.. WE ALL NEED TO VENT AND WHINE IT'S GOOD FOR THE SOUL. so everyone be tolerable and put yourself in the others persons pain and see what you would want to do.....thaqnks for listening... god i wish i could type better
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637613 tn?1281039564
I was so blessed when I found MH. I truely thought I was all alone and the only one going through the wierdness that is my world. Here I found so many people who are going through or have been through the same. It is such a huge relief just to know I am not alone. Yes...we all have days we need to vent and whine. This is an amazing site where you can vent when you need to...and offer advice and support when you are able. I love it. I am pretty new to the social site but am finding it very friendly. Thanks to all of you for that. Keep up the great work of being there for each other...it is awesome. God bless...Lynn
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518031 tn?1295575374
thank god they really cant hear me sing.. well they may join me in the shower so that couldnt be all bad could it?? well coud it???...lmao
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547368 tn?1440541785
You don't sound stupid. Jolly posts a few lines of old classic rock music every day. We all think he's "singing"  specifically just to us......LOL  I'd tell you he sings to me. But every other member would tell you that he sings just for them. No one really knows...we just listen....LOL
Tuck
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599170 tn?1300973893
this froum  helps all of us by being able to complain to others who understand, the adverage persons in my life dont really get what its like to hurt for an extended period of time, and I think they get sick of hearin it,on here I have found 6 real good friends that I tell my little secrets too and its helped me so mush, in return Ive had people thank me for helping them I love this web site.
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505907 tn?1258369340
  Venting? Did somebody say my name? We are commonly misunderstood, highly passionate people. It has done me a world of good to hear the voices of other like minds - like minds? When did I ever think I'd be able to say that? I appreciate the people in this forum no end.

  p.s. I hate to sound stupid but....I see you two members are not physically close - what is meant by "singing"?
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489725 tn?1280052553
i  have not spoken to you before i dont think anyways so i will say hello -sorry to see u are in so much pain and dont feel guillty for venting to your friends thats what in here is sometimes about by the sounds of it above u give a lot or your time yourself ,,so if there is something we can do to cheer u up ,,just say
i hope u feel better today

nice post jollyman
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