Hello, I'm so confused! i am 47, so am I starting menopause or could I be pregnant? I am gaining weight in my stomach and I didn't have a period in January but did in February and then in march no period again, now I have taken 5 hpt and all the results were not pregnant i have an appt to see my doctor in couple of weeks but in the mean time I'm worrying myself to deat, I feel like I'm going crazy! I have been having hot flashes and night sweats like you would not believe. i do feel sick to my stomach every now and then but I'm wondering if my nerves are getting me. Has anyone else had this happen or anyone have any suggestions?