Thanks for your comment. I dont think i've been having hot flashes, i think I would notice. I'm going to have blood work done just to see if anythings wrong, otherwise as long as I can take it, I'd rather let it run it's natural course, but we'll see. Sometimes the irritability, fatigue, and mood swings can really be draining. Good luck to you.
Hi Poco - I'm 44 and in the same boat as you. I had a period in early December. It lasted longer than usual and then I got it again around December 18 and it lasted 7 days. Now I'm not sure which days to count to see if when my next period will come. I think it means the change is coming on. I've also had soaking night sweats during this time period.
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