I believe my wife is going through extreme menopause with major depression. Hot flashes, paranoia, anxiety, irrational, memory loss, withdrawn from friends and no contact with family outside of the immediate family, Plays mario kart 8-to-10 hours a day, has greatly reduced her cooking to the point where the kids complain about being hungry and she doesn't talk to me, except to complain about me or one of the kids. She won't seek treatment, doesn't admit to anything being wrong, and will not go to counseling either with me or without me. I've tried sending her e-mails with menopause websites, she confides in no one anymore and therefore, there is no third party to provide advice to her. I have lost my partner. We do absolutely nothing together. I'm exhausted, lonely, concerned for my kids who absolutely know something is wrong. I am about to throw the towel in on this marriage. I can't continue like this for much longer. Any advice, what I'm I dealing with?