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wet dream problem

1) I am 20 years old and still a virgin therefore I am always thinking about sex.I masturbate 7-10 times a month but then there are always times when i don't masturbate(e.g like 20 days) and during those times i get wet dreams in every 5-7 days and some times i get wet dreams in 2 consecutive nights. Now 17 days back i get wet dreams in 2 consecutive nights but then 17 days have past i have got none,this has happened 1st time in my life.my quest is that is this normal or my previous condition was normal?

2)when i used to have many wet dreams as mentioned above i asked about this with my friend,he said that it means i am sexually weak,means i wont be able to satisfy my wife after marriage,his main point was that i will *** before my wife does...is he right?

kindly answer both questions please.(kindly ignore my poor English because English is not my primary language)
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139792 tn?1498585650
Do not stop breathing while masturbating.
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139792 tn?1498585650
Masturbating 10 times a month is quite normal. If you get wet dreams at random date is also normal. Take care of your general health. Masturbate when there is maximum urge. You may calm yourself with deep abdominal breathing.If you cannot avoid masturbating, do it by following few tips.
Masturbate with lubricated  hand. keep your perineum relaxed. Do not over visualize sexy scenario. . keep your bladder empty.Do not hurry.Remember that masturbation is a natural habit. Worrying about the habit does more harm than the act itself. You are OK and you will satisfy your wife and you will have children.So do not worry.
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