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ED Problem: Please Help

I am 32 and I have a ED problem since I was 25. I went two urologists and went through tests and nothing wrong was seen. Both doctors recommend me to use Cialis 5mg. When I take Cialis 5mg, everything becomes right. However, I do not want to take medication at this age and want to learn the reason behind that.

One thing that makes me wondered is that I do not feel anything when I am playing with my penis with my hand. It does not get up with my hands. However, when I go to bed, lean one side, NOT FACE-DOWN, and rub my penis against to the bed, I got very solid erection in a second.  As my position is not prone, I get away from "traumatic masturbatory syndrome." I do not have morning erections, yet I have night erections ( I realize them when I randomly wake up while I was sleeping).  I am really depressed because of this problem at this age, please help me, thanks..

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1667242 tn?1487950547
You problem is almost certainly performance anxiety  --  you are looking at yourself trying to get an erection, at least at a subliminal level. The way to cure this is to stop challenging yourself. If I knew more about your situation re partner etc I might help you more.
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Thank you for your reply. Is that happening even masturbating with hand? I am saying because it does not get up with hand masturbating. And, is there any method I can use myself to get over it or any pill? Thanks..
11369760 tn?1449504372
Your situation is troubling, since you "do not feel anything" when masturbating.  Do you shave the shaft of your penis or apply lotions of any kind to it?  I am wondering if you are doing anything that would change or numb any skin sensations along the shaft.  
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Thanks for your reply first. Nope, I do not shave the shaft and do not use any lotion for masturbating. However, as I said, when I go to bed, lean one-side, NOT FACE-DOWN, and rub it againts the bed, it gets erected just in a second.

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