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Ejaculation during exam

I post yesterday about my girl making me get my balls check for lump. I thought it come from lifting over 400 lbs for first time last week. I went to md cause everyone said I stupid if I dunt go. Thinkin about what happen make me sick. But he spend so much time check my testicles over & over & the even my penis. He say he need to "palpaint" me all over. I ask him to hurry up when I start getting hard. Before I know it I shoot. Never been so embrass in my life. Seriously. How much time should a doc spend checkin you balls & penis. It seem like he spend 15 mins, but maybe only 10. I was pretty drunk. Only way I was able to go thru with it. He say he dont find anything but refer me to yourologyst to make sure. Any one been thru this? Shouldnt a doc stop the exam if you get hard? I kept tellin him to hurry up & seem like he did aposite.
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Doctors aren't squeamish. They treat the human body and they know about its natural responses. You should be relieved that he was doing a complete check. Don't be embarassed, it is your health. Good thing he did not found anything. Hopefully the urologist will say the same, that you are ok. Don't you prefer to be absolutely sure? Without the proper examination, you may not get sure. Being drunk, on the other hand, does not seem to help at all.
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Thanks you for youre anwer my question. I think if hapening to you you understand better. If you go to gyno & doc spend so much time down their you orgasm you be upset two. The hole thing just feeling wrong. The way he look at me down their & thing he say about my penis when he touch it. You wrong alholol not help. It do help cause I almost punch him before I shoot cause I so angry. But it relax me. I spend my hole life do very good in sport to be a man. Now feel like less man. I angry at him but at me for get hard. No reason a man touch is ok to make it hard. I try so hard not let it hapen but shooting from man touch is worst. I keep think about what hapening to me. I think it wrong. I wonder if he make me shoot purpose. Any man now how much time is right to check for hernia & if it normal to palpaint penis two? I dont say to him any problem with penis only sometime premature ejaculation.
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You're making a big deal out of nothing! get over it! It doesn't mean that you're Gay!
Go see the Urologist!!!
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Lol! I KNOW there NO way I can be gay. You no how many girls I have sex with? It impossible! Maybe you rite & I need to relax. It not big deal. It just in my mind it fisacally imposible for man to get me to shoot. My mind want to threw up but my penis acted like he like it. This so confusion for me. Maybe it punishment for what I do in Jr High. My best friend dare me to pull it out after we watch Girl Gone While video. I do & it get hard then two & he keep lauging at me. I forget this till last nite. So this secon time same prob in only 8 year!
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PS: I two afrad to get another test. What if hapen  for 3 time?
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This problem is in your HEAD on your shoulders You worry to much! Look if you ejaculate it's no big deal it happens to everyone
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Dont mess wit me bro! You cerious?! It happen to everyone in testicle exam? Really?! Are you messin wit me?!
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the answer to your concerns is that you suffer from premature ejaculation as you said. The doctor just touched you and you ejaculate cus you are very sensitive to the touch. That doesn't mean you are gay, it is a natural response of the body. The lower head has a mind of his own. Next time you go for a check up masturbate before. Relax. I had many genital examinations and I get hard sometimes, however I never ejaculated in front of the doctor, but I know it happens to some men.
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Thank bro! Good advice! If I get courage to go to yourologyst I musterbat rite before. I alway think be straight mean that you penis get hard for female only. If it dont mater if it a male or female touch you it make you hard I dunt like that idea. Cause sometime guys look at me on the subway cause my body building & I feel angry cause I think why they lookin at me?! Does that mean if a gay guy want to make me get hard he could? How I make my penis to only get hard at the right tiimes? I feel better to know I not only one with problem at doctor exam But now I scare To see I cant control who get me hard or when.
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Erm, I don't know.... *does* sound a bit odd to me. Did it seem like a normal examination, or did he 'palpaint' ("palpate") it in a kind of 'wrong' way???

If not than, Miguel, then maybe you are slightly 'bi' (nothing wrong with that, probably half the world is)? Maybe you don't want to LIKE certain feelings you have but maybe you just DO have them, deep down inside. Allow yourself to be YOU.

Don't try and be what others tell you to be, just be true to yourself. Have your fun while you still can, getting old ***** ***(!)
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If you get an erection during a genital examination what your doctor is gonna think is that your equipment works. Also has to do with that you are young and your testosterone is at high levels. Hey, don't fall in love with your doctor ok! Just kidding ha ha.
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The way he touch me did feel wrong. Like he tryin to make me shoot. And making coment about my size down there feel wrong two. He sayin something like, 'That muscle big two' and smile when he had it in his hand. The more I think about it the more rong it feel. I think that why i keep want to punch him. I try to ignorin him and keep tell him to hury up. When he palpaint me he chek each ball between his tumb and fingers and when he palpaint my penis he put his hole hand around it & move up and down. To me it almos the same as when I mastabat.
When you say maybe I bi I thin you wrong. I man. Look like a man. Sound like a man. I play sports and bodybuild competive. I get hard when I think about females ONLY. I have no sex problem with my girlfriend ecept prematur ejaculate. Never get hard from a man. Ecept this time when the doc keep moving hand on my penis. But now you got me worry about that two. I dont like to think that guy can make me shoot. It make me very nerous. Especial cause I have sonogram of my balls next week. I keep havin bad dream about what happen.
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LOLOL! you funny, bro. When I tink about what hapen it make me sick in my stomak.
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If he was checking your balls for lumps, he wouldn't really need to touch your penis, JUST your balls.

I had my 'equipment' checked this week for a bladder problem, all they really did was check my urethra and a slight check of the balls/groin - no molestation at all, whole thing was over in less than 30 seconds.

Sounds like he was jerking you off - report him!!!
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He say he must chech penis for lumps and that some time the mucle in penis is strain from hernia two. He squeze my balls and say that he move up & down on penis to keep hernia from move to penis. Damn. Now I fel so stupid to belef him. At time he sound true. Now I getin so angry. I duunt no what to do. I dunt thin I will go to police cause two embaras. What if police say to me like you say before maybe it my fault that I shoot or that mean I like it. Truth is and I hate to admt but my penis do like it. And I shoot a lot. This is very confusion two me. Just cause my penis like it dunt mean I gay right? Before you say maybe I "slightly bi". What is that? That mean if you only get hard when a man touch you down there? I want to punch the doc. But I know it rong. But what he do to me & How he make me feel is rong two.
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Yo. Some peple here say that I might be a little bi becuse I get hard and shoot durin my physical exam. Does that sound right? Tell me truth. Does it mean I bi?
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Miguel I'm sure you know the answer. We know the answer already. One thing is getting hard during a genital examination and another one is getting sexualy stimulated by the touch of your doctor.
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Wat does that mean?? WHats the answer? What diference between gettin hard during genital exam and sex simulated. I duunt understood. Serious. Please explain more simple. This hole thig is stresful for me and confusing.
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Well, Miguel, when I said you know the answer is because in your own words you said "I hate to admit, but my penis do like it". "I shoot a lot". You never told the doctor to stop, You said you wanted to punch him, but you never did. I understand you are confused with the whole  situation, because you never expected to feel good and ejaculate at the touch of your doctor. With all my respect and believing that there's nothing wrong being bisexual, but I think you are. You can be bisexual and have sex experiences with both sexes or think bisexual and only have sex with the opposite sex, it is up to you whatever you feel confortable. I can be wrong, but you asked me to explain. Relax and stop stressing yourself and like another member said you are making a big deal out of nothing, get over it. Relajate hermano!!!
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But my penis like it just mean it feel good fiscaly but not inside my feeling is only angry and fear. I only shoot a lot cause it was 4-5 days since I shoot. You right I never expect it to feel that good. Definate not thin a guy could make me ejalate. I still thin doc touched me rong--too much too long and say too much complment. So maybe HE gay. You tink I should ask if he gay? I duunt feel bi in my mind. My mind is only straight. But maybe my peice like that but I always been straigt and have girl an we engaged. I dunt wan to do anythin wit a guy sexual maybe get  ******** only. But how a guy like me find out if I like it if I engaged. I dunnt no any gay or bi people. you thin one would suck me even thou I dont like guy and have a girl? Should that be the test to see if you righ?
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The coputer ****** me. I was tryin to say get suck
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I'm now convinced that you are very curious about the "gay-bi" thing. Why don't you send me inbox so we can chat more and try to explain more about your confusing mind
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I am not very curios abotu nothin. I just wonder how I supose to find out if I am real bi like you say.
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It normal to get hard if someone touch you it dunt mean I gay
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