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Keeping my erection

I am a 51 year old man. I have live on my own for the past 3 years, having only one brief relationship.  I have found a very attractive and sexy woman.  We have finaly got it together in the bedroom.  I was sexually aroused and got a good erection during the warm up and oral sex.  I lost my erection as soon as started intercourse.  This was very embarasing and now I am in fear of it happening again.  I am fit, healthy, not on any medication and have nevr had this problem before.  I did suffer from depression after the break up of my 16 yr marrage, but I am fine now.  PLEASE can anyone help?
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Thanks for the answers guys.  Yes she fully understands the time I have been on my own and she is being very patient and not adding any more pressure to me.
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A low dose ed med might help,, Arginine etc.  basicallyh just need a token tol help with confidence, does your new girlfriend know it's been  a while? Is she patient?  It is probably just a psych thing.
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