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Masturbation pains and fast hair loss, HELP.

One day when I was masturbating, just as the very second I ejaculated, I felt a hard blow to my stomache.
Felt just like I recieved a sucker punch to the gut.
All doctors think I'm crazy and thinking too much.
Now days after masturbation, I feel a pain in the lower rib area to the left, sometimes a little higher up when I feel it on the right, and sometimes anywhere on my lower back or even on my neck color upper back area.
I also have been having a lack of sleep, ringing noise to the head every single night and during the day I can still heart it a little all day.
Plus, I have been losing hair too fast for normal in the reseeding hair line area of my head & creeping further back and all around, higher, and to the side.
I can't count how many times a doctor at the ER would tell me I think too much, and how many times my family doctor asked me if I'm crazy. Someone, please help me...

Sami
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You should make an appointment, get all the facts written down, anything that you know is not "normal" and give them to the doctor. Explain to him/her that it's because these things go untreated that they keep adding up. Explain that it's not all in your head and that you are not thinking to much, it's that doctors you go to are not taking you seriously because you are grossly aware of your health, but that you KNOW these are real problems.

By the way, "grossly aware" is more of a term meaning that you are not crazy, just extremely observant, telling the doctor this will help him/her understand the problems are real. Keep it all to the facts, and keep it as short as you can but not leaving out anything important.

Keep posting and keep us posted. :-)

Oh, as far as the spell check, I kinda figured what you meant from the content, but thank you for doing it :-)
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The spell check is only so you can know the details.
I did not want you to confuse color with collar.
One is a bone, the other is a fade. lol

Now about the hair, I'm not worried about my looks.
I'm worried about my health.
Losing hair by the months is real fast and that makes me scared.

I urinate a lot too and sometimes it takes a long time to get goin.
(I could be standing at the stalls for a full minute for it to get started)
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It's no problem, if I can help, then I am happy to help. Oh, also, I like keeping the replies and conversation on the forum, no offense and while I appreciate the spellcheck, I honestly don't care about people using correct spelling. I don't mean this in a mean way, I appreciate you did that, but a person misspelling is the farthest thing from my mind in cares.

Okay, first things first, you have to try to stop masturbating so much, it's not healthy physically, emotionally, and mentally. I am NOT saying masturbation is not normal, but it like all things needs moderation. When you masturbate to much, you cause disensitation (however you spell that stupid word.......) and it causes you having to do it more and more, which as you said because of masturbating to internet porn, can cause emotional and mental problems. Also, this can cause sexual problems for when you get a girlfriend or boyfriend (I am not implying anything, I just don't know you and I don't know your preferences, and I don't mean it to be a factor, just didn't want to offend you) You want to stay as emotionally and mentally healthy regarding sex so that you function better in a relationship later.

Instead of going to the ER, go to a regular general practice doctor. If you have done this, go to a different one. So that they don't try to say "it's just in your mind" keep the issue/s short and to the point. When you go on and on and elaborate to much, that tells them it has way more to do with the mind because when you go on and on, it is SHOWING you are thinking about it to much. See, I think it's because you are concerned that you do this, but to a doctor, it might not seem the same.

The going bald thing can be just because of genes. If your mothers side of the family has early baldness, then you will, and I both empathize and give an EMPATHIZING laugh because I am going bald at 30............yayyyyyy for us both right.........stupid baldness.......

Anyways, I have no problem with you messaging me, to talk to me if you need or want someone to talk to, I was just saying that with this specific original post, I would want to keep it here because like I said, the correct spelling don't matter to me, and I would like to address this first.

There COULD be something physically going on with your stomach, but like I said, when you see a doctor you haven't seen yet, please just keep it to the facts, what you KNOW you feel, not what you think. He/she will ask questions after that and then you want to answer directly and only what you know. I am just trying to help so please don't take this the wrong way.
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I forgot to note one thing in answering question 5.
I have a minor Learning Disability and have been suffering from memory loss these days.
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First of all I sincerely from the bottom of my heart thank you for your response trdofbeingtrd.
Now to get started:
I do not feel any pain in my jaw(s), but I do feel a tad bit of a solid bum inside my belly button. It's not as hard as it was 2 months ago, but the fact that something that I never had before in my life now there, bothers me a lot. The only way I can describe this bump is that it's inside the ring of my belly button and you can push it up with your finger.
It seems as if something has been places, misplaced, slid, or moved inside my stomach.

Answer to question 2:
I do not live alone; I live with my mother and own a real hairy cat if that helps.
He's male and sheds a lot of hair. He's far from being the cleanest cat.

3. Sometimes I'll masturbate 1 to 5 times a night, depending on how hard it is to sleep, how uncomfortable I am because of stress or anxiety (depending on what the differences are between the two). Another thing is that I lost some sexual sensations (lost some pleasurable sensitive feeling inside my body) during ejaculation. You can describe this as absent (not there anymore) nerves that were there before, but are not there anymore.
Sometimes I ejaculate too strong and it hurt because I wait too long; I get too obsessed & imaginative with internet porn fetishes. Other times, even if it's just one time the whole night, I have a weak and pleasure-less ejaculation.

4. I was born with a slow thyroid. I take Levoythroxine Sodium 0.05mg

5. I do not have any medical record of having any anxiety or panic disorders with any doctor, but I have had some real angry, pissed off, and or emotional days to the degree where I'm orally fighting & arguing with my mother, feel threatened by the world, want to threat the world, have total hate, or totally feel hated by everyone around me.

6. I am not a vegan, I could not live without meat, and I am on multi vitamins, but I have not been on them for very long at all, and I take them weekly not daily. And I never go against what labels have printed on them. If it says "one a day" then I will only, at the most take one a day. And the reason I'm on them is because I'm desperately searching for answers and solutions to my health concerns.

Please read the next message I send you, it's a copy paste of my report, but with spell corrections.
Thank you.
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I have a couple questions please.

1. Do you feel any pain in your jaw or any other part of your body than what you have stated above?
2. Do you live alone? (I am asking this because hair falling out can be a symptom of many things, and if you have a room mate it could be something because of them, and I don't mean this in a "freak out" kind of way)
3. How aggresively do you masturbate? I am asking this because I am curious if you have a type of ED (erectile dysfunction)
4. What medications/drugs are you taking if any? (please be honest, this is a safe haven so you don't have to worry about getting in trouble or people judging you)
5. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't take this the wrong way, I am not saying you are "crazy", but do you have any history with anxiety and or panic disorder?
6. Do you take a lot of vitamins and are you a vegan?
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