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WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU STOP MASTURBATING

as mentioned what happens if you just don't masturbate?

do your testies get bigger?

i have only ever had one wet dream and i have gone 4 weeks without a pull..... what happens if you just don't wank

does anyone not wank?

i usually do it at least twice a day
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I'm probably the wierdest person on here.
lol
I've only masturbated to the point of ejaculation one time. I did it when i was 13 and for some reason it didn't feel good. My balls hurt afterwards, and the general feeling was unpleasant. My *** was very sticky and messy as there was a lot of it. it was kind of jellied.

After that i didn't do anything till i was 16 and I got a handjob from my girlfriend. That too didn't feel good. Afterwards i felt at peace and calm afterwards and almost fell asleep. I was clothed though, and she just stuck her hand in my pants to do it. When she finished, it soaked through my briefs, my jeans and even my shirt. It was really liquidy unlike the first time and almost had a reddish hue. I had to scrub really good to get all of that out later.

After those two poor experiances i've been afraid to try it since. I've tried to masturbated a few times here and there but i always chicken out before i get far because i think it'll be bad.

what the hell is wrong with me? lol
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Nothing.
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"I see what you're telling me but I don't see a point in abstaining from masturbation for a whole month. As of now, I may masturbate like 3 times in a week and I think that is doable. Like I said, once I find me a steady girl to talk to and have sex with, I'll chill out on the masturbation."

Well if you want to be motivated to have a steady girl to have sex with maybe you'll need to chill out on the masturbation first.  Read this link and it basically says that if you want to resensitize your brain and be motivated to get a girlfriend, you'd need to abstain for basically 2 months.  Then once the two months are up maybe you can bring it down to once every two weeks or so.  This is a very good read, I think everyone should read the link below:

http://recoveringman.com/Desensitized.php

It's kind of interesting to read this because the two month abstinence and two week schedule was my strategy before I even read this, haha.  I'm 8 days without masturbating and going strong by the way and plan to reach the 2 month goal.
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"Honestly, why don't you test your limits?  Why not try going one month without masturbation and porn or even two months?  Then after look back and think when you felt most comfortable, was it two weeks?  Then maintain a schedule of once every two weeks of masturbation or whatever suits you best.  I know some might think you lack self discipline, but I know that's not the reason.  The real reason is because you think you "need" to masturbate or watch porn several times a week, but the reality is you don't. "

>>>> I see what you're telling me but I don't see a point in abstaining from masturbation for a whole month. As of now, I may masturbate like 3 times in a week and I think that is doable. Like I said, once I find me a steady girl to talk to and have sex with, I'll chill out on the masturbation.
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"I don't see how I relapsed. In 2010, I had control over my masturbation because I had female friends with benefits. Now, that it is 2011 and I no longer have any of the friends, I do not see the point in going weeks and months without ejaculation. So in other words, once I get me a couple of female friends with benefits again I'll go back to no masturbation.

I say I have full control of the matter."

Honestly man, I think your deluding yourself a little bit.  I'm not trying to be a **** either, I just think what you're doing isn't heading in the right direction.  The reason you had control over your masturbation before was not because you had female friends with benefits, but because you actually had self control to not masturbate.  Now, without your female friends you have found an excuse to masturbate to your heart's content.

You even have said before that if you didn't have your female friends, you'd probably masturbate once every two weeks, but obviously you haven't lived up to that.  Now you're doing it several times a week, which is bad considering you also watch porn to get stimulated and and you're having web cam sex as well.  

Honestly, why don't you test your limits?  Why not try going one month without masturbation and porn or even two months?  Then after look back and think when you felt most comfortable, was it two weeks?  Then maintain a schedule of once every two weeks of masturbation or whatever suits you best.  I know some might think you lack self discipline, but I know that's not the reason.  The real reason is because you think you "need" to masturbate or watch porn several times a week, but the reality is you don't.
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