Hi slender, Look your only 14 come back in 4 years time and then tell us what size you are then, your still growing, you could gain an extra 2 inchs on that in that time easy, if not then worry.
Good Luck
Women like average-sized generally. You will be just fine for plenty of women. Some women won't fit you right. That's normal. There is nothing you can do about it except wait and see.