Sounds like toxic shock, sounds funny to read, its just touching her boderly fluids gives you this reaction, then its toxic shock, see your doctor and see if thinks the same way.
Good Luck
First I am no Dr. Though I am going to be studying for emt/nurse in the future but it almost sounds like you are allergic to womans "liquid". I'm not sure. Just giving my 2 cents on that. Btw! I am 19 years old so don't be worried just stating my opinion. Hopefully someone will post a more accurate answer soon. :D