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730826 tn?1317943334

Hubby comes home in 2 weeks and I feel like I dont want him home.... Anyone had this?

My husband hasnt been the real passionate time. He called and wished me a happy birthday and happy valentines day but thats it. I see other guys who are there with him who had flowers sent to their wives. They send them messages on facebook and call daily.... Im luckey if I get a call every 3 days. I know hes ont eh computer but never sends me any messages. The few times I wrote him stuff, he doesnt answer or he just says love you too... even if its a long message about how I fel about our marriage or whats going on. I just feel like Im not caring anymore because I feel he doesnt care. If he did wouldnt he put in that extra effort to make me feel loved.

Does anyone else get these feelings and how do you deal with it?
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1033073 tn?1271494986
Hey Lucy i talk to a few army wives that live near me and it seem were all having the same problem idk whats going on but i know how u feel chin up hun maybe he will be different when his home
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730826 tn?1317943334
I do look forward to him coming home but lately Ive been thinking of the other times hes been gone and when hes back, Im more annoyed with him. Its like, all that waiting for this? Sounds horrible I know. I worry more about what hes up to when hes home too for some reason. The last 2 nights Ive had dreams he came home and I was more than excited... mind you in one of the dreams after obvious "catching up" he cleaned the house, so that might have been why I was so excited! lol
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1033073 tn?1271494986
Rofl i know how u feel last time mine came home after being away 3 mths he was home 5 weeks and i was like wtf i waited 3 mths to get ignored while u catch up with all ya mates or go out or fishing and leave me at home so i couldnt wait till he left again haha
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730826 tn?1317943334
I know!!! Mine has this website hes ALWAYS on. On a daily basis of going on it, just to see whats new takes him like 4 hours. Im not looking forward to him catching up on it!
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