A bit of hope for al u ladies out there that are/have been through a m/c please read v helpful

[charlotte_withey]

Just to let u al know my story 1st, i m/c on jan 31 2009 @ 13wks i thought it was the end of my world and just wanted to joing my little baby...i went on and to m/c again for the 2nd time...and again for the 3rd time i had a break to greive for my 3 angels and said to my self relax now! Wel here i am 19wks pregnant and baby going strong, al i want to say is DONT GIVE UP! Yes u wil feel...guilt/anger & emotional but remember thats what grieving is! If u want to cry any where just do it. I was running away if i seen a baby in a supermarket and it was silly when i could have just bursted out in tears which im not scared of no more. Let go ur angels are in a nice place and im sure my angels are watching over me. I hope this helps u girls char x

[Romeny]

I'm really so happy for you ! CONGRATULATIONS ! I had 8 miscarriages , you can imagine how I feel, but when I read your post you gave me tons of hope. good luck pretty mum :)

[ashleyc83]

That is truly inspiring and motivational.  I had 2 prior miscarriages, and now I do not know what's going on with this one.  I am hoping and praying that all goes well.  Thanks for posting this, I feel so relieved.  After 2 miscarriages in a row, I felt awful, guilty, anger, depressed, and less that a woman.  I feel better just reading these post :-)

[frank_noahsmommy]

Thanks for sharing. I have 2 boys and have had 3 m/c in a year we are ttc currently and I was beginning to give up and stop! After 3 Its like maybe I am just not suppose to have another one. That did not last I am still actively ttc!! hearing your story gives me hope!!! Thank you for sharing and congrats on your baby girl!

[charlotte_withey]

Just to let u girls know i had my baby girl 4wks early at a healthy 5lbs 6oz shes now 10wks old and almost 10lbs. She is worth every miniute. Wouldnt change her for anything. Her name is layla :) hope u ladies are doing ok xx

[prevatt77]

As I have told many woman on this forum...DON'T GIVE UP... it will happen.  I also had 5 miscarriages and I gave birth on my birthday to a healthy baby boy and he is now 10 months old.  I was exactly 41 at delivery.  Follow your dream and don't give up, it will happen.  You're just getting an old egg, your eggs are as old as you are.  Keep Trying!!!

[leon0409]

Oh thank you, that really lifts my spirit. I had mine this year at 17 weeks and it was devastating, I think about it every day. But I try to be positive and think positive. I don’t want to think negative, because as they say misery loves company, and even though we have a reason to be sad we also can choose to have hope and believe that in the end it WILL work you thank you charlotte_withey &  adgal.
Hopeful K

[adgal]

We have similar stories.  I have had 5 m/c in the last two years, all back to back.  I am now 28 weeks pregnant with a healthy little boy!  I am also 40 to boot!  Char is right, don't give up.  I have been a part of MedHelp for 2 years and have heard so many stories like this.  It can still happen, even when it seems hopeless.  Good luck to you all!!