So a year after my amazing MC, and I call it that because my soon to be husband told me he couldn't have children and I thought I couldn't either, after months of check ups, blood work, needles, praying, begging, I finally get put on provera, metformin, and... Clomid! I'm only 21 but have severe PCOS. I took provera and get sick from metformin but I powered through it. Now, just before I take clomid... I get cold feet. And the nightmares start. What if it happens again? What if I have no warning? What if I can't carry to full term? I have nightmares about impossible things going wrong before birth... It's been over a year but I suppose it never stops. Anyone understand? Or maybe I'm just afraid of getting what I want? Or never being able to...
I addition to what Scout said, I have some advise about dealing with a chronic health issue and what helped me. I used visualization and meditation...I asked myself what my life would look like if my health problem suddenly disappeared. Every time I did it, I got more specific...more detailed. I would absolutely NOT allow anything negative to intrude during my visualization..if fears came up I dealt with them at another time (I am deeply spiritual so turned over my fears to Christ and asked him to strengthen me).
Perhaps visualization of you WITH what you want (a baby) would help you?