I went to my obgyn Monday because I was staying lightheaded. I gave them an estimated time that I was pregnant in a visit before that and it came out to 9 wks this past week but I wasn't for sure on the time. They did an ultrasound monday and couldn't find a heartbeat. But my cervix looked fine. I have had spotting after sex and cramps from gas but that's all. My doctor told my to make a decision by today which is Wednesday. He hasn't done any blood work. And I was only in the ultrasound room for 5 minutes and the majority of the time was spent getting everything ready. This is my first pregnancy. But I went yesterday and told him I was going natural. And I am wondering if I should wait for my appointment next week or just go to the hospital this weekend and go ahead and get a second opinion. Because he told me yesterday that my blood work wouldn't change till the baby passed. And he was pushing for a dnc.