I'm so sorry for you loss, I had a missed/silent mc, I was 12 weeks along but the fetus had stopped growing at 7 and a half weeks. I knew there was no mistake as my periods were regular and I had tested the day before my period was due and got a positive, so my dates were correct. I did thought have sudden doubts the day before the D&C procedure and I think this is natural, however I didn't request a second scan because as I said I knew my dates were right and I'd had no bleeding etc.
It's best to try not to dwell on the ones where mistakes have been made. I should think that as you went through IVF your dates would have been spot on, also a heartbeat should have shown on an ultrasound even if you had only been 8 weeks.
Going through this has been one of the hardest things I've ever gone through and my heart goes out to you. Things do get easier though, you'll never forget but the pain does ease a little.
we planted a rose bush in remembrance of ours and my dh named our child sidney...he or she will always be remembered...........lots of love and hope sent your way...Teri
Thanks a million am keeping busy! How are you?? I know it's hard but chin up xxx it's very recent for you thank you for your word they were of comfort. Me ANC my dh gad a priest to say goodbye to our little one even though it was only 8 weeks we buried the baby ( as it was. To us) and this helped me !! I am here for you if you need anything xxx I will pray for you and your family xxx
i have had the same thoughts , since i had my mc induced with cytotec....i know it sounds stupid but try to keep yourself busy...i induced my mc on june4 a day i will never forget. i dont know how to compfort you.. But i will pray for you...Teri