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Heart broken :(

Hi everyone. Well yesterday I went to the ER, I had bad cramps and bleeding. They said that I have an infection, did an U/S and the tech said he saw a heartbeat but we couldn't hear anything. According to them I was 6weeks, they sent me home with no meds for the infection. Bleeding and cramps got worse, couldn't sleep as I was in pain! On Dec 14 I lost my baby, I didn't know him/her, didn't even have the chance to feel my baby kick but already loved him/her so much. I got to say goodbye, held my little blip in my hand! Will be going for a scrape tomorrow.... good luck to everyone with your pregnancies. Treasure it as you never know what will happen tomorrow*
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I'm so so sorry for your loss :( I can't even imagine..
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is. Thinking of you & your family in this tough time.
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Sorry to hear your lost sounds to me like you should sue they should had taken better care of you and your lil one they should had taken care of the infection
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I am very very sorry for your lost. The loss of an unborn child can be overwhelming.. It's not your fault and you have to remember that.. Best wishes to you and yours..
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I know how hard it is to deal with that loss... keep strong
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I'm sorry I know how u feel 5 years ago I lost my son at birth never easy but time will heal
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Don't lose hope. Me and my wife went through a similar heartbreak. we where devastated. but through the grace of God here we are a year later and we are 5 months pregnant.  God bless you.
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I am so sorry honey but don't give up hubby and I lost our first at 8 weeks nine months ago I still think about it we are now 8 months and I still worry about this one it's never easy losing a baby I hope you feel better soon you'll be in my prayers stay blessed!
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I'm so sorry for your loss :( I couldn't imagine we love our babies the moment we find out were pregnant it hurts to lose something we loved so much already and never got to meet them.  Praying for you this holiday season ((hugs))
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I am so sorry for your loss! :(
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So sorry for your loss... I cant imagine your pain but rest assured God has something great for you.hugs

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Thank you all for your sweet words. We're taking everything day by day. But at least we still have so much to be thankful for, our precious 9mnth old daughter. She truly is the light of our lives. Definitely think we would've been more devastated if we didn't have her to cheer us up with her sweet smile. Bless you all! Happy holidays and have a great new year*
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Im so sorry for your lost. I lost a little angel in june at 8 weeks was suppost to be 11 weeks that day...but God knows the purpose and plans you stay strong i will keep you in my prayers just cry it out give it time to heal and i hope later on you may feel ready. I was able to stay strong and get pregnant again after 3 months im now 13 weeks and im praging about it every second. I know soon enough you will find your answer and accept it. Stay strong! God bless you! (:
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I am so sorry this happened to you. The same happened to me November 2014. I was so excited and already so in love with my baby. Found put baby had died at 7 weeks when I was supposed to be 10 weeks. My doctor advice really helped me to cope with it. He said just try to always keep in mind that it was your bodies way of letting it go because something wasn't quite right and it was most likely unhealthy. Him and his wife went through the same thing and that helped them through, and it really did help me. It's the worst feeling in the world tho I know. Keep your head up and again, so sorry for your loss.
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So very sorry for you and your family. This is a difficult thing to process take it one day at a time. U r in our prayers during this difficult time
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