I am 30 years old and in a very loving, committed relationship for the past four years. I am on birth control and my partner and I did not have any plans of having a baby. However... I had to go on antibiotics for a bad sinus infection and I guess my significant other and I become pregnant. There were lots of 'pregnancy signs', however, we just kind of played it off. I ended up having a miscarriage two days ago. I'm positive that's what happened. It was the most painful thing I have ever experienced. Physically. I'm curious about what my body went through. My boyfriend wanted to take me to the hospital, and I wouldn't go. I ended up passing what would be the fetus. It was so painful, physically unbearable for about twelve hours, and then I passed it. When it finally came out, I actually had to push (while on the toilet). My questions are 1) is this any way comparable to labor? It was so painful I couldn't move, breathe straight, etc. I couldn't even walk. And then 2) once it came out I was really distraught about what to do with the fetus (?). I ended up flushing it down the toilet, but both my partner and I felt incredibly unsure of what we were suppose to do. Lastly, like I said, we weren't planning on having a baby, however, we both feel 'off' but aren't sure what we're feeling... Any thoughts??? Suggestions?