the same thing is happening to me, I've been waiting for nearly 2 wks and finally mine started yesterday, cant wait for it to be over so I can try again :)
I am miscarryn right now as I type....the cramps r not bad at all n dey only come when I'm about to pass a big clot....I've bn sittin on dis toilet for 2 hours already uuuughh....I have work in a few I really dnt wanna miss work .....I bn preparing for this so I'm pretty ok I just want it to be over already .
no not generally, only if it isnt a complete miscarriage, then you will need to go and have a d&c to make sure everything is out, it can be draining emotionally and physically when it takes a while, but in saying that, it can also be a shock when it happens very quickly, it really depends on how you view your miscarriage, some women are extremely devestated by the whole loss, while others seem to take the practical road and although saddened are ready to get back trying almost straight away
Is it bad if it takes long....can it cause a serious infection or anything ?
So sorry about your loss. Miscarriage can take some time. some are over very quickly and others go on over a longer period of time.