I'm so sorry for your loss and your terrible experience! I don't know if that's routine; it didn't happen to me, but each loss is different and necessitates different treatment. It sounds like your loss was somewhat complicated with all the bleeding, medications, surgery, and transfusion. Could you talk to your OB about it to try to get a better understanding? Or even a counselor? I know I talked to a counselor quite a bit after my losses and she really helped me. Many hugs!
I'm leaving hospital tomorrow and was under a different doctor since that day so I think I will ask her. It just seemed so horrific and it was in a small examination room and even when I asked them to stop they didn't
Thank u for ur response