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NEVER GIVE UP HOPE. my story....
I too m/c in June and i was 8 weeks along then period came, we went to er on friday morning that morning and it was confirmed there that i was m/c by saturday i was feeling very upset and i had cleaned house like i never cleaned i took my upholstry cleaner and started cleaning my couches with it. by saturday evening i started geting pains even tho i was flowing 2 days prior to it i finally let the embryo pass saturday night, i was alone. my husband was working the evening shift . i stood up look down and there it was it was even formming the skin on it i could see it all the head the hands were stubs the feet were stubs i could see the embellica cord was realll small but it was there. how terrifying this was i didnt no what to do so i flushed the toilet and screamed softly. no one to share thi s with.
with m/c and your husband you really are alone even your husband as they dont like to speak about this stuff. i managed to keep it all in till i finally told my mom a week later i m/c and i broke down and cried hard over the phone.
3 years ago i m/c at 6 weeks along i was in such agony i had a d n c that one with the trials of waiting to get into er that previous day we held a dinner party for our parents and we were going to tell them we were pregnant but instead we said we m/c i was in such agony i still made the dinner for 10 ppl that night. i held all my emotions in. as i had to tell them i couldnt join them in eating but i sat at table anyway and waited till everyone left then we went to er. i got in however with my ordeal of it all was i sat on my pelvic bone all night as my obygen and family doctor ordered me in to emergency surgery you touch and ill scream i told them, the receptionist just kept asking me how im doing i glared at them and said how do u think im doing.. i asked for a bed to lay down on 3 hours ago and they have the nerve to ask that question. by 6 am my obygen called us in and asked were we where and we said waiting to get in and i cant hold this any longer. he told me to go back home dont eat any thing just drink fluids will reschudle it. so now going on a day and a half without eating and in pain so severer they question me how im doing.?
so with all this in my mind i still have the worse one in my head to this day but to everyone else im just a happy go lucky chirppy person buggin everyone around me. but to myself and my husband it was the hardest we expereienced.
trying to get husband to communicate with me on a better level then do things for me is not an easy task. especially when he doesnt no how to speak when it comes to death of anything. how do you really get husband to speak on how he feels ? see my husband is a jokester always trying to make you laugh when the tough get going kinda guy but when the tough get going on him he doesnt speak. he doesnt journal he doesnt do much like that of anything hes a mr fix it around the house husband but his own self. its really not easy,
why im writting this out is to share and state after ive read all your reviews and questions i figured instead of answering everyone which soemtimes i try to do. i figure ill state my stories in perhaps some may get answers to there questions. after my surgery on the d nc the lady doctor told me that there is no reason why we couldnt go ahead as she looked in me she said all of my everythings are good to go and dont see why we cant try again.
then my obygen even stated in a joking matter at the time before surgery he goes hey you got pregnant and look only took one visit and im just hahah glarein at him and he goes ok i know sorry for that but it was rather funny in away.
so from 3 years ago to this date i have done multiple researchings and find that instead of getting ivf and iuis which cost a fricken fortune ( now i know it works for some of you and god bless you for doing all that enduringness of needle prickens and pokings etc) we dont have, and to find out if itl work or not i mean what are the odds of putting out 10 grand every time who has that kinda money? ill just figure it out the long way. and well i finally did,( i got pregnant doing this method even tho i di misscarry point is i got pregnant after a 3 long year delay and at least i know im still fertile enuff!!) and with a lill help it may take time but i wont be inducing myself with any medication not needed. i eat from what mother nature gives out. and sure ill do all that with the help of pre-seed too in hopes that will help but it wont cost me 10 grand tho for surely not., . with the help of one of my friends . she told me which i just absolutly love it anyways to raise your progestrone eat sweet potatoe the orange tear drop or ball looking funny thing some ppl not sure what it is ,eat that every day or other day and that will raise it up. along with fresh herbs cut back on alot of greasy foods not to much caffene etc and pretty much with a lill meat not alot of meat when having dinner eat like a rabbit fresh veggies cooked or raw. i mean they say rabbits mulitply all the time geee i wonder why? . have herbal teas cause that helps with our mineral intake as well too. so eat from mother earth she knows best. also i may point out take some vitamins meant for fertility too that can boost you up.
with clomid yes i did try that and i just broke out into hives on my face and swore i will never take it again. that stuff costed me 100 bucks and im like know fricken way? never again for clommid. so onto searching again and as i stated above eat like a rabbit queen style.
so you see i do still have my moments of depression with my losses but i look at it this way for my age of 42 and now ill repeat that im 24!! haha i know im going to get pregnant and have it stick and im not going to give up.
for some of us another option is adoption, and i like one lady said which i like ( but unfortunatly we cant adopt again not enuff money for this) she states just cause we cant bare a child doesnt mean we cant adopt achild and it not being our child when we do adopt that child is for us and we can give that child a whole new life and love it like we gave birth to that child.
im sure i missed some areas of all that i wanted to say but for now im thinking this will suffice for now. in hopes it lighten some of you trying just like me!
NEVER GIVE UP HOPE DONT MATTER HOW OLD YOU ARE I SAY AS LONG AS YOU ARE STILL HAVING YOUR PERIODS YOU CAN AND WILL GET PREGNANT.
now since i had my m/c and now a full period. i just looked up to the sky and said im ready to try again meaning i felt something go twingggg inside and it saying my linnings back in.
till then peace and blessed be to all you wonderfull mothers to be we all are mothers even if we havent gone to full term yet we will we will we willllllll.
peace be with all of you..
Little2Feet a commming
so im asking has anyone else had this?
with m/c and your husband you really are alone even your husband as they dont like to speak about this stuff. i managed to keep it all in till i finally told my mom a week later i m/c and i broke down and cried hard over the phone.
3 years ago i m/c at 6 weeks along i was in such agony i had a d n c that one with the trials of waiting to get into er that previous day we held a dinner party for our parents and we were going to tell them we were pregnant but instead we said we m/c i was in such agony i still made the dinner for 10 ppl that night. i held all my emotions in. as i had to tell them i couldnt join them in eating but i sat at table anyway and waited till everyone left then we went to er. i got in however with my ordeal of it all was i sat on my pelvic bone all night as my obygen and family doctor ordered me in to emergency surgery you touch and ill scream i told them, the receptionist just kept asking me how im doing i glared at them and said how do u think im doing.. i asked for a bed to lay down on 3 hours ago and they have the nerve to ask that question. by 6 am my obygen called us in and asked were we where and we said waiting to get in and i cant hold this any longer. he told me to go back home dont eat any thing just drink fluids will reschudle it. so now going on a day and a half without eating and in pain so severer they question me how im doing.?
so with all this in my mind i still have the worse one in my head to this day but to everyone else im just a happy go lucky chirppy person buggin everyone around me. but to myself and my husband it was the hardest we expereienced.
trying to get husband to communicate with me on a better level then do things for me is not an easy task. especially when he doesnt no how to speak when it comes to death of anything. how do you really get husband to speak on how he feels ? see my husband is a jokester always trying to make you laugh when the tough get going kinda guy but when the tough get going on him he doesnt speak. he doesnt journal he doesnt do much like that of anything hes a mr fix it around the house husband but his own self. its really not easy,
why im writting this out is to share and state after ive read all your reviews and questions i figured instead of answering everyone which soemtimes i try to do. i figure ill state my stories in perhaps some may get answers to there questions. after my surgery on the d nc the lady doctor told me that there is no reason why we couldnt go ahead as she looked in me she said all of my everythings are good to go and dont see why we cant try again.
then my obygen even stated in a joking matter at the time before surgery he goes hey you got pregnant and look only took one visit and im just hahah glarein at him and he goes ok i know sorry for that but it was rather funny in away.
so from 3 years ago to this date i have done multiple researchings and find that instead of getting ivf and iuis which cost a fricken fortune ( now i know it works for some of you and god bless you for doing all that enduringness of needle prickens and pokings etc) we dont have, and to find out if itl work or not i mean what are the odds of putting out 10 grand every time who has that kinda money? ill just figure it out the long way. and well i finally did,( i got pregnant doing this method even tho i di misscarry point is i got pregnant after a 3 long year delay and at least i know im still fertile enuff!!) and with a lill help it may take time but i wont be inducing myself with any medication not needed. i eat from what mother nature gives out. and sure ill do all that with the help of pre-seed too in hopes that will help but it wont cost me 10 grand tho for surely not., . with the help of one of my friends . she told me which i just absolutly love it anyways to raise your progestrone eat sweet potatoe the orange tear drop or ball looking funny thing some ppl not sure what it is ,eat that every day or other day and that will raise it up. along with fresh herbs cut back on alot of greasy foods not to much caffene etc and pretty much with a lill meat not alot of meat when having dinner eat like a rabbit fresh veggies cooked or raw. i mean they say rabbits mulitply all the time geee i wonder why? . have herbal teas cause that helps with our mineral intake as well too. so eat from mother earth she knows best. also i may point out take some vitamins meant for fertility too that can boost you up.
with clomid yes i did try that and i just broke out into hives on my face and swore i will never take it again. that stuff costed me 100 bucks and im like know fricken way? never again for clommid. so onto searching again and as i stated above eat like a rabbit queen style.
so you see i do still have my moments of depression with my losses but i look at it this way for my age of 42 and now ill repeat that im 24!! haha i know im going to get pregnant and have it stick and im not going to give up.
for some of us another option is adoption, and i like one lady said which i like ( but unfortunatly we cant adopt again not enuff money for this) she states just cause we cant bare a child doesnt mean we cant adopt achild and it not being our child when we do adopt that child is for us and we can give that child a whole new life and love it like we gave birth to that child.
im sure i missed some areas of all that i wanted to say but for now im thinking this will suffice for now. in hopes it lighten some of you trying just like me!
NEVER GIVE UP HOPE DONT MATTER HOW OLD YOU ARE I SAY AS LONG AS YOU ARE STILL HAVING YOUR PERIODS YOU CAN AND WILL GET PREGNANT.
now since i had my m/c and now a full period. i just looked up to the sky and said im ready to try again meaning i felt something go twingggg inside and it saying my linnings back in.
till then peace and blessed be to all you wonderfull mothers to be we all are mothers even if we havent gone to full term yet we will we will we willllllll.
peace be with all of you..
Little2Feet a commming
so im asking has anyone else had this?
thank you chunk if i can at least inspire a few people then its well worth my writings. if you ever need to talk feel free to vent away here or in message form email. keep thinking positive and it will happen..
its way to easy to get negative in anything but takes alot of effort for some of us to smile if we can smile to someone and recieve it just makes it all that much worth while to have smiled. thats a positive doesnt matter how small or big the positive you will feel it within.
its way to easy to get negative in anything but takes alot of effort for some of us to smile if we can smile to someone and recieve it just makes it all that much worth while to have smiled. thats a positive doesnt matter how small or big the positive you will feel it within.
I am very sorry for what you have been through. Your story is very motivating and I will not stop tryin myself. I m/c Feb.14 2010 and hubbie and i are now ready to try again. god bless us all and thank you for your story. i cried reading it. it was very touching and i felt...i felt your pain too. I wish you and your husband all the best of luck and i was told by my doc your never to old to have kids.
oh yea one thing i forgot to ask everyone is ...
does anyone know of any liquids we can drink other then coffee and any cafinated beverages i know are defintly no nos. but besides herbal teas and non cafinated drinks and gingerale is there really anything else we can drink|?? i mean how borring is always just having water and what i mentioned lol
does anyone know of any liquids we can drink other then coffee and any cafinated beverages i know are defintly no nos. but besides herbal teas and non cafinated drinks and gingerale is there really anything else we can drink|?? i mean how borring is always just having water and what i mentioned lol
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