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Should I consider telling my ex I had a miscarriage?

A bit of backstory, I was 16 when this happened we had been on and off for a few years but for the moment we where great, he had been sneaking in to sleep over almost every single night, my periods used to always be on time like clockwork so I didn't think anything about it until i went into my app to check when it was due and i was about 2 weeks late, I was going to tell him when i had time to process it but i never had the chance. One night i woke up to the worst cramps i had ever felt, you can guess what happened next. The whole thing was pretty traumatic as i faced it by myself, I just never could seem to find the right time to tell him and now here we are, I'm 18 and we officially broke up last July. Is it far to late to tell him? I don't want to be cause any problems but i also feel like I've been carrying around a boulder and I think telling him might lift it up. So i guess my question is should i tell him? or should i just keep it to myself?
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