This may be stupid

[PetiteWonder]

I was diagnosed with a blighted ovum 5 weeks ago and had a d&c 4 weeks ago.. I am coping quite well with it as I am young and hoping for the best in the future...  doctors tell me there is no reason to worry at this point as it happens to alot of people....... but at the same time, it happens to a lot less people than it happens to...

I have been coming to these forums for a couple weeks as I literally know no one around me who has experienced any form of miscarriage... So it helps to know I am not alone..  At the the same time, every once in a while, reading some stuff on here also makes me lose faith...  like it feels like I will keep having problems and I know its possible to go both ways.. but does anyone else feel that way?  it will be hard to feel otherwises until there is success, if there ever is...

[Vanillagirl]

Sorry for ur loss. I agree this forum has helped me out a lot.  I have my up and down moments reading some of hen post.  I was told to ttc when I was ready. A lot goes in to play when ttc after a mc. U are due to having mixed emotions u have went thru a lot. Good luck on ttc again . I waited one cycle. Sometimes it hard to realize when u r ovulating, and then u also have to b emotionally ready. SSBD TO U!!

[PetiteWonder]

Now im just in the phase, waiting for my period to return, earliest should be next week... and then november to ttc again....  docotor said ideally we should wait 3 cycles to try again so we have committed ourselves to at least 2 and judge it from there...  since we dont really know how things will pan out from this point.

[kid_shuichi]

It has been 2 weeks since my miscarriage and I still cant believe that it's been such a short while. All within a week they found a heart beat, lost the heart beat, confirmed my miscarriage and I went in for a DnC... it was almost too quick to think about it. I also found out that my "normal heavy slightly clotty periods" might really be continuous chemical miscarriages... But there is always hope. This place (this site) gave me hope even when I was staring the results in the face and knew there wasn't any. Reading other peoples stories give me the peace of mind I need sometimes to close my eyes at night. Try try try again, what more can we do? :) There's a little one somewhere waiting to call you mom. <3