I don't know if you mean you're giving up on having a baby - and I truly know its hard right now to think of it but, don't give up. I had my first m/c in October'08 and went through the same as you : sweating ,rolled up in a ball it was so painful that I wanted to pass out etc..... I got pregnant again in April but, the doctor said the heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks. So, now I'm bracing myself for a natural miscarriage again - I'll never forget those wicked wicked cramps and I'd said I never wanted to go through that again - but, I will because I want to have a baby so bad.
You'll see there ARE success stories from women here who have had multiple m/c's but, now have baby/ies or are pregnant at this moment. Don't give up hope - one day soon we'll see you on the pregnancy forum - your time will come !
I'm so sorry to hear what your going through. In 1996 I also was giving up after a m/c in 95 and an ectopic in 96, to my surprise I became pregnant right after the ectopic and gave birth to a healthy baby boy in 1997. I recently lost a son at 5 months in October and I have been ttc since Nov. As Sue68 said...there are alot of success stories and we need to hold on to that. I wish you the best and hope your feeling well soon.
I'm sorry for your loss. It is a very painful time both emotionally and physically. I hope you feel better soon. I'm here if you need to talk.
sorry about your loss and at 31 you can afford to take a break if you really want to. but after your body heals you may change your mind. don't be surprised. know what this feels like myself and i'm here for you.