emotional

[poemdivaa]

Hello. I just miscarried a few days ago. I thought i was emotionally ok. But now im not so sure. Has anyone have any ideas a  to handle this positively?

[JulielovesAl]

I have been going through this too for a week now. At times I feel ok and other times I feel so sad. What has helped me is staying busy working around my house and now that it's spring I'm getting out in my garden. I just keep trying to look at anything positive that I can. It doesn't take the pain away but it's a healthy distraction for a bit. Love and prayers to you <3  

[emzapps]

Hi so sorry :-( I had a mc 3 months ago today. I was the same thought I was ok but I wasn't and you just have to go through all of the emotions and get them all out. Also I talked to people you feel very much on your own but it's very common unfortunately! Honestly time is a healer. Hope you feel better soon xx

[azndoraemon]

That's not crazy, that's love.

i have three cousins that are expecting this summer and my due date was supposed to be late sept/ early oct.  

I have two co-workers that are also due this summer and fall.  

yes, talking help, i did talk to a few close co-workers about it and they shared their experience with me too.  

[MelMoxey]

I was depressed after I learned a friend was due two weeks after my due date.  I find that talking helped me. And it sounds crazy but I bought a house plant in memOry of my baby.

[azndoraemon]

I m/c on Feb 22 at 7 weeks, first pregnancy.  My husband was so happy about my pregnancy and he told 40+ people in our family (family member only).  As of today we still didn't tell our family about my miscarriage. He's mom recently asked him how many months now...  

I know it's hard and it has been exactly two months.  I was totally fine with the miscarriage and i did not cry at all because i was thankful that it happened early and that it was not meant to be.  The waiting period is the hard part.  I didn't know the process was this long.  It was dragging and that's what made it hard.  I never gotten an answer throughout the process,  i asked a few doctors and they all said it's different for everyone.  Errr I was so stressed after a month of waiting, i was fed up basically on your second month lol, but finally my hcg is a 2 as of today, 4/21 and my period is coming.  Phew!

Try to relax and focus on getting better instead of thinking about m/c.  All i wanted was to get better and be done with the process.    

[poemdivaa]

Thank u much for all your support, Lord knows i need it right now. Hugs to you.

[ross1112]

Aaawww sweetie, I'm so sorry for ur lost, what helped me was I joined the gym, and my husband helped me a lot too, I'll be praying for u, I know how hard it is