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help I think its happenig again this will be 3rd
Long story short I am a survivor of child hood aduse I am 43 years old had masses of gastric surgery I have two children have lost two children I think I am lossing my third I don't want to but it seems I will last weekend I had a bleed at 6 weeks my dr scaned me and all looked well wedensday I burried my adoptive mum I have had bad back pain for two days and again small amount of very dark blood coming away very string I know grose but dose this mean all is not well my hospital told me to go to bed and wait till monday I feel like I am bracking apart and joy to the world its christmas and I have toapear happy I just want to be swallowed up help
Honey, see a grief counselor. That is a lot of deaths in a short time, and there is no reason you have to overtax yourself emotionally just because it is Christmas. Ask your 18-year-old to take on the decorating and the shopping, and ask your husband to buy for the 18-year-old, and seek some counseling help. There is nothing like a grief counselor for being helpful in times like this.
My thing is my husband wanted no one to know until we got past 3 months my 18 year old kind understands and is upset but my six year old is not so easy I only got the tree up friday well my daughter did no shoping done o nly a few gifts its heart brakeing to spoil it for my 6 year old that and we bearly told any of thoughs coming hear for christmas last christmas we lost my husbands mam this one its the peanut annd my adoptive mum since moving into this house 5 years ago weve lost 2 babys 2 mums an adoptive mum and adoptive dad and a job is it me or the home I think its me breaking up breaking down and lost
I am so sorry for your loss. You are not obliged to paste on a smile for Christmas. I lost twins at Christmas, and certainly everyone understood that I was not a bucket of joy.
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