misscarrige

[caitlinn]

im 14, and three weeks ago i found out i was pregnant, i was scared at first, but then me and the babys father were getting excited, today i just found out id had a misscarrige, ive never felt this low in my life, and i dont know who to turn to.

[XxpandaxX43]

well im just here to say to you your are way way way to young to be having a baby your 14 you still have high school left i have a 3 month old and im 15 i wish i would have waited i cant go to the movies and i cant stay the night with friends but really you need to try birth control and your to young to be having SEX! i would know i found out the hard way but im mature for my age im living with my boyfriend and his mom i was ready for a baby but something bad happened and it died but now im a mother of a boy he is 3 months and i really really wish i would have waited so if you need any thing im here for you

sorry to hear about your loss!!!!!

[Sunny222]

You know, a lot of us feel like there was something we could have done to prevent a miscarriage, but the truth is, there isn't. It just wasn't the right time, and there was something wrong with the baby and your body knew it wasn't a healthy pregnancy. Again, there's nothing you could have done or predicted. If it's any consolation, there is no reason you won't go on to have a perfectly healthy pregnancy in the future. But, you are young, and you have lots of years ahead of you. You feel terribly low right now, as did I when I miscarried, and that's only natural. This will heal in time. Give yourself time to be a teenager and enjoy becoming an adult. I would say that you should practice safe sex with your boyfriend, dealing with pregnancy at such a young age brings a whole different level of difficulty. And of course, you want to practice safe sex for many other reasons as well. I'm sure you will be an amazing mom when the time is right!!!
Lots of (((hugs))) to you!

[steph9803]

I'm sorry for your loss...I agree with AP that you really need to find someone to talk to. Did you go to the dr.? If not you really need to because there could be complications that could be harmful to you. You'll be in my thoughts...

[caitlinn]

thank you very much :]!
no, i hadnt told my parents, i was planning on waiting a while or until i started getting biggger.
im so sorry for your lost to, ive never felt this low in my life,i sort of feel like tis my fault,
thanks again
hugs&kisses
xxx

[ArmyPrincess819]

I'm so sorry. You are not alone this is a whonderful and warm fourum where many of the women have been in your very shoes. I have 6 times. Don't feel low. Did you tell yoru parents? If you haven't and need help there are places like planned parenthood or your school counselor if you ask them not to tell anyone or even a priest. You may even call your local town hall and ask if they have a number for you to call to get some help. I'm so sorry I wish I could give you a big hug. You are not alone at least on here. Feel free to talk to me or leave me a message anytime you want. I ask that you make sure you follow up with your dr so you know that your health is okay after the m/c. Best wishes to you. I wish you a quick recovery.
Hugs,
AP

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