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10888885 tn?1413645845

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Went for my appt today to check on my twins boys im 5 months and they had no heart beat tuesday they would do a D&E  i feel like my whole life went with them :(
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it's a horrible thing to go through.
I had him on Friday morning and EVERY single Friday evening, I get irritable and just, down right SAD. one day a week is better than every day, but I feel like if I don't get sad, that I'm losing a connection with him. grief is $%^ed up!
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Thank you ribaby15
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Wow ribaby15 our stories are so similar....I also held my baby in my hands those are moments I will never forget I thank God he gave me an opportunity to spend those two hours with her. I still miss her and think about her but I know I will see her again
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I lost my son at 17wks. Same thing. Routine checkup and they couldn't find the heartbeat. I got induced and delivered him a week later and held him. he was beautiful. they had to do a d and c a few days later because some of the placenta didn't come out on its own. It's been 5 wks and one day since I held him in my hands, and not my arms. The haze is still here. Days get better but you'll always think of them. I'm so sorry you have to go through this.
please keep me posted and if you need to vent or ask any questions, I'm here and an open book. you might not want it now, I found I just wanted to be left alone afterwards. but as the days progressed I googled and read and watched every loss story I could find.
I just bought and watched Return to Zero. It's amazing.
And when you need to talk. I'm a keyboard away.
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10888885 tn?1413645845
Im 33 yrs old my doctor told me that it was something with the placenta
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10888885 tn?1413645845
Thank you so much ladies
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You can deliver them normally....it gives u a chance to hold them and spend sometime with them....I did that with my sophie and I will never forget those moments....good luck!!
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You can deliver them normally....it gives u a chance to hold them and spend sometime with them....I did that with my sophie and I will never forget those moments....good luck!!
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I can certainly relate. I miscarried in July. I was only 8 weeks along, so I cant imagine the heartbreak youre experiencing. I'm still devastated and I think about it all the time. And I also feel like a part of me went with my baby.
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I know its hard!!...hang in there!Do u know what happened? How old are you? Do you have an infection or disease? I might be able to help
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