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Miscarried in July. Ttc. No period. Couple days late. I have lots ewcm but neg preg test. Not sure when i ovulated. Anyone just as confused? Thanks for any advice comments. Feeling kike a huge failure...
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803938 tn?1403748253
Yes I understand, my husband will grieve much faster than me! He will go punch some weights at the gym then mostly put it behind him.

You should grieve, a miscarriage and no child is very hard for a woman. It took me 4 years and 3 miscarriages to conceive my one child. The 3rd miscarriage was the hardest one, I went into a severe depression. Take care of yourself!!
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Yes another new month another new egg. It will happen. I got call from docs nurse who i adore. Shes wonderful! my hcg levels are low. Real low. The little mulberry is trying or starting to implant. The test was taken within the first several hours of it. So i retest tues and ultrasound after.
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He was frustrated because I couldnt get over it as soon as he thought and then I wanted hurry up and get pregnant. I didnt think I was being oushy, but he did. Thank you. It feels good to know I have the right to grieve.
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1806883 tn?1458321004
well I've woken up to that old familiar feeling :/ I've got an unwanted visitor, oh well bring on next year and next month :)
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1806883 tn?1458321004
my miscarriages are due to egg quality due to my age which is perfectly normal at my age, my hcg levels were down early after my miscarriage so its not that I'm just thinking that maybe the first time my body geared up for ovulationand didnt, so its had another go so we will see in a couple of weeks
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Have you talked to your doc about your levels? It might be something correctable. I took blood test, so we are waiting patiently until doc calls tomorrow. Menopause- do you have symptoms? Ive got the obsessive thing under control now. Lol i was just so depressed. Has doc said why so many miscarriages? I am so sorry.
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1806883 tn?1458321004
well I've bonked both times so we will see what happens I'm on day 37 so something has to happen either way soon :)
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803938 tn?1403748253
After my recent miscarriage, I also had ewcm mucus twice before getting my periods - very abundant each time, about 2 weeks apart I think. We did not TTC and no opk because I wanted some time off for my uterus to get back to normal.

Marievince: your husband is frustrated with you because you had a miscarriage? Very unfair!! Not your fault!
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1806883 tn?1458321004
Hmmm I dont involve my hubby in any of it if I did he would say thats enough cause he doesnt like seeing me go thru stuff, but in all honesty everytime I get preggers now (because of my age) I expect to miscarry so I dont get excited at all, I have now had 4 pregnancies in the last 2 1/2 years and 3 of them have miscarried, so I still feel sad but I'm prepared for them to happen even before they do so its not as hard  emotionally when it does happen, I took a p/test 8 days ago then the next day did a opk and thats the one that came up pos, I'm sure I've o'd twice this month as when I do I really want to throw up, and both times I've had pos opk's I thought I was going to be sick, so I dont know!! maybe I'm starting early menopaues, arrggh I shouldnt even think about that one!!!
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Stacy have you taken a hpt?
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I wish our bodies would just follow the norm.. lol It's so stressful at times, kike it takes over your life- every thought... :/  I'm a little better now, but it's hard. You just feel like you have to prove your capable in carrying full term to have healthy baby. My hubby was getting overwhelmed and frustrated with me.
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1806883 tn?1458321004
no I'm on day 37 of my cycle which is usually around 29 days and still no period, and about day 4 after my second positive ov so whole knows
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Did af come. Not here. The ewcm has pretty much stopped. I think about 3 days. Im taking blood test on Thursday or Friday. Scared...dont want hear bfn.
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1806883 tn?1458321004
I'm with you!! I miscarried at the end of nov, and I use opks and I ovulated 16 days after miscarriage started, then I have just ovulated again, 16 days after the first opks tested positive, so I have no idea what my body is doing either :)
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Its crazy cuz thst would mean twice this month. Still no aunt flow... :).   Thanks girls...
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wondering if you use OPK's?  cos the ewcm sounds like you could just now be ovulating.  
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1806883 tn?1458321004
ewcm is usually fertile mucus so maybe your ovulating right now
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