This forum has been very good to me, especially when I was smacked in the face with a “possible ms” diagnosis and then on my subsequent journey to officially being diagnosed with RRMS last year. I just need to go on a mini-rant and vent a bit.
My husband and I were planning on trying for a baby sometime in the future, but the diagnosis sped things up. My neurologist agreed at the time that I should wait to go on DMD’s and we agreed to fast track the babymaking. Well, we have spent the last 9 months since the diagnosis seeing fertility specialists and hoping that every month was the one. Well, we know he is fine, and we know think I am fine, but still no baby. That in itself has been so frustrating, especially knowing that in the meantime I am not on DMD’s. Talk about pressure! I also now find myself second-guessing not being on DMD’s.
Well, to make matters worse right now, I think I am finally experiencing some fatigue and other symptoms that I have never had before now that the crazy summer heat has wacked us. The MS was discovered by accident after I had a concussion, which led to a head CT, which led to an MRI, which led to a neurologist, which led to further testing, to optic neuritis and eventually to confirmed RRMS. I had thought of myself as a normal, young, healthy person in the prime who was a bit clutzy. Turns out it was probably the MS all along. I have symptoms, mostly ones that the neuro has pointed out, such as hand tremors leg weakness, numb feet, etc. But they are symptoms that I have dealt with. Well, I haven’t really had a flare that I can remember, but the last couple of weeks I have been having odd symptoms. The fatigue, weakness, tingles and overall feeling like I have a touch of the flu especially when I get hot are bugging me. I know it is the MS, but it is the first real stuff that have slowed me down.
I guess I just need a pick me up. The frustration and pressure of trying to conceive combined with knowing I am putting off DMD’s have really got me down. Then add the heat intolerance symptoms to that and I am really having a hard time. It is even harder trying to explain to people who aren’t in the know about my MS why I have all of sudden slowed down and can’t keep up with all of my usual activities.
Thanks for letting me rant. It just helps to get it all out, especially to people I know will understand.
-Amy