OK. I wasn't accusing you. There have been several posts about how folks deal with their docs. I was trying to see what was going on. If your appointment started that way and continued, then something is very off. Your provider should be acting more professionally.
You might consider contacting your insurance company (directly or through your employer) and let them know that "your case seems to be frustrating your provider." They can alway choose to send you to another provider.
Bob
Thank you Bob for your input. I understand about being professional and act accordingly with my Doctors. And I don't and didn't cry at the appointment. She was the one who was barking at me. I had a written down some things I wanted to talk to the Neruologist about but she didn't want to talk about my recent symptoms. I understand that they have a difficult job, but I am not trying to be a problem. I told her that the foot pain may not be related at all to the recent symptoms, just wanted to let her know what was happening. She did put down on my MRI form to check for demylinating disease, so I hope to get some answers. I am not a doctor, nor am I trying to diagnose myself, hence the Doctor appointments. My insurance is limited and I don't have any other Neurologist that I can see. Perhaps she was having a bad morning. I guess my case frustrates her. She just keeps telling me that there is no cause for my foot pain that she can determine. I don't like to take pain meds like tramadol (they make me sick) so only take them rarely. I have come to grips with having constant pain, but now with these current symptoms, I am barely able to function on some days. I can't lose my job, that would be very bad indeed. Anyway, just wanted to clarify that I don't ***** at my Doctor and am cooperative. If an opportunity to change insurance comes up, will probably do so if I can choose my Doctors.
What other service professional (contractor, hairdresser, mechanic) would you allow to "Yell at you?" Now, in the same breath, you can't cry at your contractor or mechanic (not sure about hairdressers,) You have to approach this as a professional cooperative exchange (a health care negotiation.) Most doctors want you/us to get better or to halt the disease process (a win/win negotiation.) Even the ones that don't act too bright. We have to play by the rules of their profession. What have we ruled out? What is left to rule out? What is the next test? If they diagnosed idiopathic peripheral neuropathy, do you have an abnormal test to back it up? Peripheral nerve biopsy? Something. What is to prove that your loss of sensation is peripheral? What points to it have no know cause (idiopathic?) Like in my day to day job, you have to take emotion (including frustration) out of the discussion.
I really think that if we make a chart of what it isn't and what had been proven, we will get more done, Remember that your symptoms are subjective and the doctor can't see them, We have to describe them and they have to test to see clinical signs. Anyone who diagnosis idiopathic anything right off the bat without testing, is taking a short-cut and they deserve to be called on it.
Read back through how we describe "symptoms." Maybe we should write up a description of tests and the relevant clinical signs. I really rhing that the docs look at the test results (LP, VEP, MRI) It is something they "trust" and can stand behind. Symptoms are another issue. I also think that many of us have symptoms well ahead of any visible lesions on the MRI. Yep, neurologists are rushed. Their are not enough of them and there is a lot of neurologic disease out there thanks to heavy metals, our use of organophosphates (something else that need to be ruled out with neuropathies,) etc.
Try and find a doctor that wants to cooperate and make the patient part of the heath care team. Just my two cents worth.
Bob
Sorry, I mean't to say that I could "not" a straight line heel to toe. See, even my typing is off. My symptoms are fatigue, MS hug (that just happened last week and was really weird!), numbness, pain in legs, memory issues, dizziness, balance problems, weak legs and sometimes arms, headaches (stabbing, cluster), blurred vision, eye pain and vibrating eyes (back & forth), my sense of taste and smell became "off", shocking pain in neck. I have been battling severe foot pain which I have been told is idiopathic peripheral neuropathy for 2 years. Now all these symptoms hitting me in a 2 week time frame. And I am not diabetic, I have had so many diabetes tests, it isn't funny. While I don't want MS, I really hope to find out what this all is and not be yelled at by my Doctor.
Ok, so after reading this wonderful post, I can understand why alot of docs. will give the run around on giving a dx. I know that with the McDonald Criteria you basically need to have two attacks seperated at different times and have an abnormal finding on a neuro. exam.
As my doc. stated to me, I have a clear MRI, which as some have pointed out, people have had lesions show, but the docs. claim are not enough for ms. Could my neuro. possibly have withheld info from me because maybe their weren't enough lesions? Or because I smoke?
I say this because, I have had an abnormal neuro exam, (hyperreflexia) . I have had three episodes of speech slurring lasting up to two weeks, seperated by two years and the last one was 11 months later. I have had, all of the eye symptoms that go along with ms, double vision, optic neuropathy, and nystagmus.
I have had face pain, stiffness and cramping.
Dizziness for 8 months, tremors, fatigue, vibrating foot, twitching muscles, word finding, noise intolerance, depression.
And, about 9 years ago,, I could not lift my legs up except using my hands.
I think my docs. need to re-read my list and stop misdiagnosing me.
I believe they are lying most of the time to keep their waiting room moving along.
I was also told that if I have MS, I would have more symptoms that are permanent,,,
well if that's true,, would my eye problem with the optic nerve be considered that, because its permanent??
Sorry for blabbing on and on, this post had me thinking,
Thank you for making me feel like I am not crazy. My current neuro got mad at me this last visit as I "had too many symptoms" and they weren't in the right category, whatever that means. She also barked at me because I could walk a straight line heel to toe. Told me I wasn't concentrating. I am going to be getting a Brain MRI soon but not holding my breath as I imagine if something shows up, it will be explained away. I am not faking my symptoms and I just want to cry now. I so appreciate everyone's postings here, I don't feel so alone anymore.
CindyLou