I think finding a new hospital is a grand idea. I found this with Cancer. I started out at one hospital. If I stayed I would have died in August of 2012. I switched in the middle of treatment. The first hospital had not even figured out that it has spread to my other organs. The second hospital not only saved my life but my Cancer has shrunk dramatically.
You have to go where you are going to get the best help.
I have the oddest story with MS. I was sent to the Mayo in 1965 for a strange Neurological illness. I was an infant. They did not figure it out. I went to Neurologists until I was 15 and no one could figure it out. It was before MRIs. My Primary Care Doctor picked up on my Neurological problems in 2007 and finally after two years and a half a dozen Neurologists I was diagnosed with MS. My MS Specialist is sure I have had MS most of my life. The weird part is the progression for me has been slow.
I have had permanent damage from infancy double vision, vertigo, cognitive issues,left side weakness and headaches. Then the disease picked up in my 40's with new symptoms such as walking slower. If you saw me and did not know about MS you would not know I have it. Those who know me see that I walk slower than I used to.
It took them 4-6 years to find my Cancer and it was stage 4. It took over 40 years to find my MS.
We know our bodies. We have to advocate for ourselves. When you hit a dead end go somewhere else.
Alex
I agree and I have been to alternative medicine but that costs money. I have some family that is in alternative medicine and are willing to help but they live in another state, until I move I just work on things myself.
My chrio doc says she believes 100% that I have MS and is treating me accordingly. I just keep going at this. I don't give up but also believe in Western medicine along Eastern. A balance is what is needed. I believe that the mind/body balance is a key to managing may key things in life.
Disillusioned2014
Hi and welcome,
Can you please stop flooding the MS community with the same comments about Mayo, you're now up to 15 in the last hour and the threads you are posting in actually date back to 2009........there will be hundred's of old posts relating to Mayo on this site and it truly isn't going to help you get the message across if you upsetting everyone bringing back all the out dated posts!
Cheers.........JJ
thanks but the care is still bias, especially when the doctors themselves are now telling me this...
No matter where the money comes from your dignity must be respected.
Good pointer on the first name thing. Does that work in a patient, psych doctor relationship too?
The only issues I see with the I am paying the doctors is where I am from the Doctors get to see what insurance we have before they even get to see us first. So if said doctor sees that I get Medicaid "all state paid insurance" then they see that oh by the way Said doctors Taxes are paying for all the test they run and all medications they prescribe, etc, etc. I hope that most of these doctors have ethics and morals, but from what I have come across this is less then the case.
I think that the only hope is when I go on Medicare thanks to my deceased Father in June. Maybe then they wont look so close at what I have and what is paying for what. Because now I get asked what can I afford and how far do I really want to look into this. That was just after this "Clinic" started to put on the charts what insurance each patient had.
disillusioned2014
Keep in mind that you are paying the doctors, not the other way around, so condescendtion on their part is way out of line. And here is a tip. When a doctor addresses you by your first name and refers to himself as Doctor so-and-so, reply by saying, "How do you do (his first name), I am Mrs. (your last name)." He will never call you by your first name again. Or, if he does, then both of you use first names.
one of the 1st questions I get asked is....How can I help you Ms...! Or Why are you here today? What seems to be the issue? (WTH)
I think to myself, Did they not read the note to as why I called and made an appt and the intake work I did. Seriously? Then I am at that point confused, an emotion sets in and I am lost...Emotion=Confusion in my brain like in 2.2 seconds. Called cognitive disorder, Malfunction....That is my TBI in action...!
I like alternative medicine but it costs money, I have a limited income also. But I do what I can.
@SarahL2491.. I like that approach, Very much, Very, very much...! We could talk...
intimidated by doctors, Yes I have been but I am getting better at standing up for me, and with the correct WORDS, which have a lot of POWER, you can get a lot of places in life.
I teach and this is what I teach the kids, (Mostly teenagers) To empower themselves and I am not the greatest with words. But If I can just do it and let the fear go and make sure I get what I need, via want across then I will get my needs meet, In a healthy way..
This was GOOD, A Good Chat. Keep it up. I'll Be back,
disillusioned2014
A very wise approach on your part. Some people are intimidated by doctors, which starts them on the wrong foot.
And if you get still more disillusioned, give a reputable alternative MD a try.
"What does one say when they ask you these questions?"
Answer them :-) I do not mean that you should withhold information, just that you respond honestly to questions rather than volunteering a lot of information up front.
If you present yourself by listing all of the issues you face, before the doc has a chance to ask any questions, you risk of providing them with a convenient way to get out of hearing you. "With all this stuff going on it must be psychological. Next..."
I do not know what information may be required at these alternate sites. You may get some help by contacting the Natl. MS Society chapter in Minneapolis.
Minneapolis office
200 12th Ave. S.
Minneapolis, MN 55415
Phone
612-335-7900
800-582-5296
Kyle
I all again, I do agree. I have been to another clinic, a concussion clinic and tried to give them as little info as possible. What does one say when they want a referral? or they won't see you. What does one say when they ask you what medications are you taking? What does one say when they ask you these questions?
I wouldn't even know where to start. I have had a recent concussion. I don't need to go to a special clinic for this anymore I guess, since they just told me to go back to Mayo.
Yes I can most likely to go U Of M and or the other place Kyle suggested an d look further into this. But I have some problems with wording and could sure use some help with what to ask, say, present to them if/when I was to get an appt.
1st would be to get an appt to be seen and I am not sure what to say to get that. Then would be asking and help with my history and how much information to really give them. So any thoughts on this and You are more than welcome to Message me. I am new to this site and am still learning. I bare with me on if I mess up. Thanks for all your help, I am truly grateful and I am grateful to Mayo, but I don't think that they serve me anymore for certain things. They do save lives too.
disillusioned2014
I agree with your approach. Too much information (and probably much of it misleading) can prejudice a diagnosis.
Hi disillusioned -
You seem to be stuck very deep in Limboland. That's not a fun place to be.
When presented with the volume of info you bring to the table the easy way out is to point the finger towards the "pain clinic". It's another way of saying "not my job."
If you're in Minnesota (assumption based on Mayo) there are options in Minneapolis, like the U of M or the SHapiro Center. If you can get in to see a brand new, non-Mayo neurologist I would let them do some of the heavy lifting. Rather than put a big file of history on the table let them ask what they want to know. Don't color the exam with information that has not helped in the past. I would not hide information, but I would limit the scope of what I shared.
Just one man's opinion :-)
Kyle
Hi disillusioned -
You seem to be stuck very deep in Limboland. That's not a fun place to be.
When presented with the volume of info you bring to the table the easy way out is to point the finger towards the "pain clinic". It's another way of saying "not my job."
If you're in Minnesota (assumption based on Mayo) there are options in Minneapolis, like the U of M or the SHapiro Center. If you can get in to see a brand new, non-Mayo neurologist I would let them do some of the heavy lifting. Rather than put a big file of history on the table let them ask what they want to know. Don't color the exam with information that has not helped in the past. I would not hide information, but I would limit the scope of what I shared.
Just one man's opinion :-)
Kyle
My apologies!!
I read "one that I had in 2011 from an MVA, (No contrast) and the radiologist report said..." as MRA and not MVA. An MRA is an MRI sequence often used for TIA's and migraine and my brain just ran with it......oh does MVA = Motor Vehicle Accident?
Cheers..........JJ
Luv and hugs to you.. I am grateful to you all, I really am. It is late where I am and I will look at the MRI report again to get the correct wording. I am not sure what an MRA is. I had an MRI with and with out contrast.
The hospital that did the MRI said the "possibly representing mild demyelinating disease." and when Mayo's radiologist read it they said normal. I do believe it is who ever reads the report and what that specific clinic has for their guide lines. I have to head to dream land I am tired, I will be back, Peace, bless you all and hey thanks, I feel some peace with you all.
Disillunioned2014
Your frustration is coming across very clearly but please do not let your frustration, lead you into believing more than you know to be true, because it will only cause you more frustration when you hear something you don't agree with and help cement your beliefs when you hear something that only supports it.........be open minded!
Basic truths...
MS has quite a lot of mimics, and because of the vast number of mimics, statistically a person is more likely to be diagnosed with a mimic, than they are to be dx with MS. Mimic's cover a broad range, there are many sx's listed as MS sx's but they are not exclusive to MS. Migraines, psychological conditions, central nervous system delivered and adverse reactions to mental health medications in general, as well as TBI's that you've mentioned, all have the potential to mimic MS.
There are certain sx's and clinical signs that are more primary sx's of neurological conditions like MS eg. Optic Neuritis, Nystagmus, Diplopia, Uhthoff's phenomenon, unilateral hyperreflexia, Clonus, Babinski reflex sign, Romberg sign, Ataxia etc.
But the sx's you've mentioned are non-specific.. 'pain, headaches, paresthesia/dysesthesia, daytime fatigue, vision (depends), bladder, swallowing, vertigo/balance and cognitive issues' would all be more secondary sx's, because they don't particularly suggest neurological as the most likely cause, and could potentially be caused by many things.
Unfortunately, many mental health medications do cause adverse side effects so whilst a medication maybe an effective M/H treatment, it can cause totally new issues. Depending on the class of drug, quite a few are prescribed off label for neurological conditions eg nerve pain, so if a M/H drug can effectively tame some neurologically caused sx's, why wouldn't it have the potential to create the sx's too.
EG. My son had adverse reactions to his low dose anxiety medication.... increased anxiety, developed tremors, sx's that perfectly mimicked panic attacks, and most unusual it even stunted his physical development and it was 'all' caused by the medication.
"the radiologist report said, gray/white matter is within normal limits, but something about calcifications, also impression/report was: possibly representing mild demyelinating disease."
If that is all and exactly what your MRA report stated, then it doesn't really make any sense to me, because on the one hand its saying your brain is normal and on the other its saying it's absolutely abnormal and that just seems a bit odd. Keep in mind that an MRA is sequence specifically focused on blood vessels and not the same as an MRI looking for brain lesions and or demyelination.
Brain lesions are associated with migraine and mental health conditions, and IF the MRA was able to detect anything outside it's scope, it would not be able to be specify, so i'm wondering if it's possible that you've some how inadvertently read more into the MRA findings than you should?
This has literally taken my hours to write, and I hope I have provided a little bit of a different perspective for you to think about and consider.
Cheers..........JJ
Along with your regular treatments, try a non-gluten diet. Sometimes gluten produces weird symptoms that mimic other ailments.
After on-and-off hospitalizations and still no diagnosis (and I went to some "fine" hospitals and had more tests than I can count), I turned to an alternative MD. We had a very long discussion. He did some very minor testing (actually to confirm his diagnosis) I was well within a month. Modern traditional medicine it seems is all about tests and pills. I don't think they every really talk to their patients. And I don't care how prestigious the facility is. They all have the same incomplete training.
Oh believe me my psych is involved but I believe is drinking the "kool aid" so to speck at the clinic.
My psych symptoms are around the same times as my MS symptoms but I again am on less and less meds and my life gets better and better, less and less stress, better in all areas and I have these on and off symptoms of MS, strange ones at that of: paresthesia, dysesthesia, daytime fatigue(gets worse as the day goes on) as does the vision. When I have changed my routine and am not on medications that will make me tired (so the psych doc says). But neuro docs say yes that 2 mgs of Klonpin for RLS will make me tired that I take at night. So I only take 1mg now. I don't tell them that either.
On and Off vertigo, especially while I am lying down. Memory issues that will look like I am 80 yrs old, then I will have months of great memory. Then I have bladder problems, also come and go (Months at a time) Shallowing issues also come and go. I have had cognitive evaluations at times said I was functioning at borderline levels and at other times I was fine, normal levels. Balance issues (Oh but that is related to "all the psych meds I am on" Really? What are those...? Articulate... in a conversation good luck on that one.
Do I think that is "All in my head" Well yes but not in the part they believe it is...
Disillusioned2014
Hi and welcome to our little MS community,
Unfortunately, what you have described isn't uncommon anywhere in the world, when a person has a pre-existing dx mental health condition, mental health is often initially blamed. The only definitive way to get to the bottom of sx's sometimes is specific testing, though often the clue to neurological conditions like MS, is how the sx's behave and or present. Psychological caused sx's may seem similar but its usually inconsistent to what happen's when the sx's have a physiological cause.
MS is actually one of the most common conditions people with mental health issues eg health anxiety, conversion disorder etc become concerned about and many people who have a dx of MS, have actually had their mental health fully assessed as part of the diagnostic process. It is always advisable when the mental health card is put on the table, to have that theory fully investigated so it can be removed or if it is M/H, then better treated.
Your experience seems to be fish bowl and the only way i can see to get taken seriously, would be to get your psych involved, so that you can get the theory of these episodes properly explored and if there is the potential of if not being psychological you'll have some evidence of it and if it is psychological then you can get appropriate help in dealing with this aspect too.
My mother has bipolar and has had many physiological medical conditions blamed on her mental health, and its only been when she's seen new eyes and had tests run, that the actual condition has been dx. Our medical system in Australia, is very different to other countries but I expect bias is bias no matter where your from, so if you can please try to get fresh eyes and seriously consider getting your psych to help work this out.
Cheers..........JJ
He ran his own tests and they came out very different than the other two. He even put me on different meds and I was much better after that.
If they refuse to see you because you won't tell them who your prior doctors were, then you don't want to deal with them anyway. Many here have given you good advice and there are over 20 mimic diseases that look like and act like MS. They have to be ruled out.
Be patient and like you have been told, keep an open mind.