With the sleeping, dont give her a nap. Getting her off the bottle, you have to suck it up (sorry to be harsh) and let her scream. Put your 6 month old in the room with you until she stops screaming. Dont give her a bottle at all. Let her know if she wants a drink, she has to use the sippy cup or whatever u are tryin to get her to use. When it comes to the eating, what all does she eat??? My daughter (now 5yrs old) was the same way. for 2 1/2yrs would only eat chicken nuggets, french fries, ramen noodles, peanutbutter&jelly, cereal & junk food. But 1 1/2yrs ago she slowly started tryin new things. I rewarded her everytime she tried something new. Do a reward system that will work for u. Also dont give her a drink first thing when she wakes, give her food. What she does eat, find the healthiest. I know its hard. Just tough it out and stay calm. It wont happen over night.
I AGREE MY DAUGHTER IS 3 ABOUT TO BE 4 SEPT 20TH, 2009 AND SHE IS EATING SAME EXACT THINGS, B4 SHE TURNED 3 SHE WOULDNT EAT FOR DAYS I TOLD HER PEDIATRICIAN AND SHE SAID LET HER EAT WHEN SHE WANTS TO.. I THOUGHT SHE WAS GONNA STARVE TO DEATH, AND ON THE BOTTLE SITUATION, I HAD TO DO SAME THING.. LET HER SCREAM SHE IS 4 ALMOST AND IVE ONLY GIVING HER 2 SPANKINGS IN HER ENTIRE LIFE, CAUSE I DONT WANT HER TO SCREAM.. SO AS U CAN TELL THE BOTTLE TRICK WASNT AS HARD, IT WORKED.. SO YEAH U ARE CORRECT, eat chicken nuggets, french fries, ramen noodles, peanutbutter&jelly, cereal & junk food