I'm bit sure this is where I should even be at this point, but I thought maybe putting my story out there might help. It's an involved story, but the short and skinny is I was with my ex for about 7 months, we broke up due to differences in what we wanted in life. The most important thing I can tell you here is she has turner syndrome. I don't know much about it, but a symptom is they are nearly 100% infertile. She flat out told me she couldn't have kids which is fine with me. But I'm a safe guy anyway. The last time we were together, my condom broke and at a really inopportune time. Since we have broken up, I haven't been able to get these thoughts out of my head that one day she's going to call up and tell me she's pregnant. And they're driving me crazy! I did talk to her and asked her if she would take a teat for peace of mind, but she responded with a "you've got to be joking" remark. It's been about 4 months and randomly the day to day, minute to minute questions are, what if I'm the miracle dad? What if she doesn't know she's pregnant? The Internet is full of info and that's probably my mistake for my repeated research, but you constantly run into people posting they knew people who didn't know they were pregnant until they had the child. Naturally I have myself convinced that's the cast here. So that's my story, I'd be happy to elaborate if need be. I would lime to kbowbif there are any women on here that have had children in the past, do you feel different 4 months in? Thanks for taking the time to read.