I don't know what I have- OCD, Bi-polar, or just being the adult child of an alcoholic. But every time I get into a dramatic argument or fight with my ex- boyfriend, I can't walk away from the conversation.
I won't let him leave the conversation when things get heated... I'll do anything to keep him on the phone. Him saying, "Let's talk about this later," or "I have to go," are very, extremely upsetting to me. I will talk to him for hours if need be... and it has actually led to us breaking up after four years of getting together.
I've threatened to come over to his house to continue these conversations.... and do anything in my power to keep them going. Why can't I just walk away? It's a habit I developed with my alcoholic father growing up... and now I worry it has pushed my ex-boyfriend away forever.
Help me!
1) Why do I do this?
2) How do I stop?
3) How do I prove to my ex that I can be healthy in this area if he is now trying to avoid all conversations with me?