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Nonstop Staring

I cant stop staring at everybody private parts. Both men and women. I cant carry a full conversation cuz halfway i just start staring. Its worse with extremely big boobs, muscular guys, guys pants. I really need to stop. Please tell me if I can stop this? I know I use to converse without the need of getting distracted by the private parts.
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You should always look into the eyes of people while having conversation. Always remember that people notice you where you looking while conversation. Get rid of this otherwise people will stop talking to you and stand with you.
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4851940 tn?1515694593
No, you do not need to see a doctor.  You do not have a health problem.

What I suggest you could do is buy some very dark glasses, so that you do not look like you are starring.

When someone speaks, focus on their eyes or their mouth.
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Thank you guys im going to try. I am actually a 25 years old guy. I hate the corner of my eyes..they cant stop starring....my friend is sitting next to me and I am looking at her boops.everybody I met, I eventually look at their boops...yesterday I was intriloduced to twp older ladies n I talked to them and eventually my eyes just star at their boops...and a guy walk pass by, I keep staring at his privates..should I seek doctor?
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You need to find something else to focus on. If you can't keep looking who ever the person is in the eyes try looking at their eyebrows. If you MUST look at their private parts I suggest waiting until they aren't looking directly at you and just a quick glance so you won't be noticed and be looked at as a pervert. Everyone does it, it's just making sure you don't constantly do it and get caught doing it lol.
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4851940 tn?1515694593
When you talk and communicate with people, look at them directly with eye contact.

People who do not have eye contact when they speak with you have either having something to hide or are not telling the truth.

You must be quite young to have wandering eyes.  There will come a time when you are in a serious relationship that this is likely to stop, although not necessarily.

Only you are in control of where you look.  It is one thing looking, and another staring.  If you find yourself staring that can become embarrassing for you and the person or people you are with, remove yourself from that situation.
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