Dear flowerfloosey (love your user name!)
I am sorry you are having the weakness that is affecting your daily life. I would ask around to see if anyone can recommend a specialist. If no luck there, have you tried asking your primary doc for a name? Last resort, I would look in the yellow pages/internet and go down the line and schedule consultations with the doctors listed. Make sure you have your medical records from any labs/xrays in the past. Also, take a printed list of all your medications with dosages and frequency. It is also a good idea to bring a list of questions with you. Might I also suggest taking a family member or friend with you to the appt. They can be instrumental in remembering concerns you have forgotten and also remembering what the doctor says at the consulation.