Dear flowerfloosey (love your user name!)
I am sorry you are having the weakness that is affecting your daily life. I would ask around to see if anyone can recommend a specialist. If no luck there, have you tried asking your primary doc for a name? Last resort, I would look in the yellow pages/internet and go down the line and schedule consultations with the doctors listed. Make sure you have your medical records from any labs/xrays in the past. Also, take a printed list of all your medications with dosages and frequency. It is also a good idea to bring a list of questions with you. Might I also suggest taking a family member or friend with you to the appt. They can be instrumental in remembering concerns you have forgotten and also remembering what the doctor says at the consulation.
Good luck