God Bless You all

[SimplyStar]

I will be taking a break from the forum and the chat room for a while, several things have come up lately and it has made it impossible for me to be objective.   I count you all as dear, close friends and I wish nothing more than, that you continue on your fight against this damn disease.  I will continue my research and when I find something of interest I will post it.  There are many very wise women on here with a knowledge of OVCA that far surpasses that of many of the doctors.  Listen to them and learn as I have. Leslee and I both thank you for all you help.  I will continue to keep you all in my prayers and in my heart.  As I told my children every night, "I will see you in the morming for a new day",   Marty

[Hindat]

I am new here also, but I have read alot of your posts.  Thank you for all the research you do and for bringing the information here.  I hope you will get to come back soon.  Until then know that you have made a difference here.  Take Care

Linda

[crecco]

I have not been here all that long either, but in that time I have come to value your knowledge and opinions. Please do not stay gone long. It will not be the same without you.
         Love, Chris

[crecco]

I have not been here all that long either, but in that time I have come to value your knowledge and opinions. Please do not stay gone long. It will not be the same without you.
         Love, Chris

[AnotherKatie]

To me you are like one of those wise elders in the tribe!  

I think you have a terrific wealth of knowledge and are a very kind person, who has been through and seen a great deal.  

My heart breaks for you and the battle your daughter is waging with this terrible disease.  I can only imagine the terror and frustration I would feel if it was MY daughter.  

I have grown to really respect you Marty, AND your "style"!!  You do so much careful research.... plus I love the way you are always there to defend those who need it.

Take the time you would have been using on the dang computer and have a nice walk, a cup of tea, read a magazine or sit and listen to the birds, whatever.  Just refresh your soul and do something nice for yourself.

Please check in once in a while ... you will be missed far more than you know.

Love from
Katie

[ireneo]

I haven't been here long but I recognized your strength and wisdom right away. You have been an anchor for us all, keeping us stable when we wanted to be swept away. You were patient with me as I fussed and worried about my silly cyst. Everyone here is fantastic actually. I think I've said it before but I'll say it again, it's probably the kindest, most compassionate message board I've ever seen.

I understand life is about changes and you need to take a break. You've been so generous with your love and understanding. Now it's time to take care of yourself. Take care and I hope to see your star shining here again some day.

[marie3B]

You really are a wonderful person. A loving mother to Leslee and a friend to so many. You have been a help to me in the very short time I've been involved with the forum. I pray for the best outcome for your daughter. When I first came here I was at a really dark point. I felt like screaming and crying at the same time,but I wasn't. Instead I was acting like I was just a tower of strength in front of friends and family. I was faking it! I have learned so much here already. The neighborhood really lifted me up. Thank you for being a part of that for me. Love to the whole neighborhood, Marie

[YvonneS]

Marty, Like so many others, I will miss you.  You have truely been an inspiriation.  Please come back soon.  I still miss Alan so much.   Like someone else said, I was devasted when Marie died.  I am not doing well, and I know it won't be long.  I hope Leslee is doing okay.  Love,  Yvonne

[puppyluve]

Marty...I am new here and haven't posted much. BUT I have read many many of your helpful posts and had a chance to speak with you in the chat room. This is a very unique place but also a difficult place to be a member. This is such a brutal cruel disease and it is so sad to see so many touched by it. You say it is impossible to be objective and you are absolutely right.This disease tears at the emotions of everyone who has some experience with it whether they have it, or they are family, or friends. But this group seems to find ways of keeping each other positive even when there is tradgedy around. And from what I have read you are one of those people that is able to rally others into better times. I feel strongly that not only do they need you but you need them. It would not be fair for you to face your daighter's illness without the support of those who know. No mother should have to watch their child suffer this. I know that sometimes people argue and bicker but in any family that happens and then we move on...but the care and love for each other never change. I hope to see you return to this board and your family, Patty

[Kimchi]

God HAS already blessed us all by sending one of his best Stars to guide us.  Thank you so very much for all your imput, support and sincere concerns.  One of the reasons I check in regularly with this forum is to see what you have to share with us each day.  Your presence here has helped me deal with my disease and to tell you the truth, I don't think I would have made it this far without you.  So thank you and thank you to Leslee for sharing you with us. PLEASE please please, check in with us as often as you can and take care of yourself.
Love and elephant size hug to you, dearest Marty.

[cirella]

Marty, reading all these posts reminds me that the forum is just like Jan said, a neighborhood.  So, I'm hoping that you take your time that you need and then come back.  We would really miss you if you didn't.  Like everyone here has said, you bring wisdom and comfort here and I sure hope you feel as if you get the same in return.

There's been dark clouds passing over us here but we all know that sunshine follows the storm.  I, too, will continue to pray for you and Leslee.  And, thank you for posting this post and not just going away.  

Take care, Lady!
Love, Lori

[vegas2cr]

I hope everyday brings sunshine to Leslee... I hope you feel well and enjoy your kids and grandkids... Ronni

[dawnlyn]

God Bless You.  I am fairly new to this forum and you are an inspiration you always seem to be here for everyone.  I wanted to thank you for the advice that you have given me I will keep you and Leslee in my thoughts and prayers.

Take care,

Dawnlyn

[onniebay]

Thank you for all the advice and help you have given.  I think it is good to get a way for a while.  Sometimes I don't come to this forum for weeks at a time because I just can't handle it.  Leslee will be in my thoughts and prayers.  

[lvfrogs]

I am saddened to hear that your advice and wisdom will not be contributing on here as much as you have in the past. I will keep you and Leslee in my prayers. and personally, thank you for the advice you have given me.
Colleen

[rootietootie]

Marty, I know that the forum changes with each and every new person that comes to us. I have been on here close to 2 years now.  I have seen people come and go, and just like at a job, the atmosphere changes, from the different people. I often find myself mourning the way it used to be, and the old people. Rmarie was one of the original ones that used to post, which made it even sadder for me when she passed on.  I know it sounds stupid, but I felt like she was part of my family.  I talked with her, or just read her posts daily for years.  I was and am absolutely devestated when she passed.  My family tells me I shouldn't be getting emotionally attached.  I actually don't get too emotionally attached to my real patients because I dont talk to them daily, or keep up with their daily trials and tribulations. The ladies on here special to me.   I remember when you came and first found this forum.  You were so caring and supportive.  Yes, the mood changes and will always continue to change, but I just wanted you to know you are special on this site.  I respect you for whatever you feel you need to do, but please continue to check in and post.  Hugs...to you and Leslie.. Shannon

[Jan214]

I'm sorry Marty. I know it is my fault and I wish you wouldn't do this.  The forum really needs your upbeat support.

[coogeegirl]

Please let us know from time to time how Leslee is going, you are a wonderful support to all of us here on the forum and reading your posts have helped me put a clearer perspective on things when I have needed it the most.

Hugs from downunder

Jenny

[junamgen]

I don't post that much. but I do follow it everyday. Thank you so  much for all the effects you have put in for all of us.  I felt so lucky to have you and othe great ladies on the forum daily to helping each othe fighting the disease at our best. Thank you again!

Peace

jun