...from what I can figure out, (I am not a medical professional) I think you are doing just fine. I had mid cycle spotting on occasion when ovulating... "Try to relax" ...yes you will hear that a lot!... and it's quite true...
Talk to your doctor about your report and you will feel better.
Love, Katie
It is quite likely that the cyst seen on your ovary is a normal, functional cyst that will resolve on its own. I had two of them late last year, both basically the same size, and both resolved before I could have a second ultrasound.
I am glad that you are seeing a fertilty specialist. You may very well have lingering health issues due to your past eating disorder that need to be addressed, and the specialist should be able to assist your medical needs, or be able to recommend other specialists for your needs. (I understand your situation as there is a member of my family with an eating disorder.)