Dear Nita,
I agree with Guiwenneth. You may not have much more time with your mother. It could be a few months. But sometimes, something unexpected happens like a pneumonia or a complete bowel obstruction, and then she goes from being sort of stable to being terribly ill and possibly dying.
If it is possible for you to take a family leave and spend some time with her, now is the time to do it
take care. I am so sorry that you and your family and your mother are going through this tough situation,
I empathize with your situatuation, as I lost my mother to fallopian tube cancer. You can try asking the doctor, though if he is in fact not telling her anything (which doesn't seem right to me) then he may not be helpful. I am thinking that most likely, though, the time frame is in the "months" category. Your description sounds very much like my mother's state during her final Christmas. By March, she was gone. Don't wait. Do the things that you want to do with your mother, NOW. If she has more time than that, then you will be blessed. However, if you lose her before you have the time to do or say the things you want to, you will always regret it. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Guiwenneth
HI nita6811,
hi this is ajay from INDIA .are u from INDIA?