Post Laparotomy depression

[layla965]

I recently had a laparotomy 2 weeks ago yesterday. The dermoid was benign. I've been depressed off and on since the surgery and have lashed out at a few family members (one of which is not talking to me at the moment) How long does this last? I just want to break down and cry at the drop of a hat and it feels like no one understands. My mother tells me to get over it and my brothers and father think I'm going crazy. My friends have been supportive, butI don't think they understand. I already take celexa for anxiety. I just need to know I'm not losing it.

[jen492]

I am 3 weeks post op I had a to have an ovary and fallopian tube removed via laparotimy.  My husband says I am acting like I have Bi-Polar disorder (i don't).  I am okay one minute and the next minute  am I crying for no reason, or I just get mean. The surgery was not planned, it was an emergency situation due to internal bleeding.  I was so medicated that I never really asked the Doc. what types of affects the surgery would have on my mental and physical health.  I guess my hormones are just really out of wack.  So you are definately not alone in the way you feel, and it's good to know that I am not alone or crazy!!  Best of luck on your recovery.

[layla965]

Thanks for your support. I'm doing better today, I've just been  trying to make the best of things. It's just good to know I'm not the only one whose gone through this.

[utahmomma]

My entire personality (or at least my patients) changed after I had my huge cyst/ovary removed.  It was frightening and I didn't even recognize myself or the blinding rage/hysterical crying that I was experiencing.  The only other time I've experienced it was when I had my thyroid removed.  Our bodies (and stress levels, and emotions) are very sensitive to hormonal changes.  

Many of us find that we just can "will" the chemical changes in our bodies to correct themselves and we need antidepressants.  If you are still having a difficult time with your emotions in a few weeks, please talk to your doctor you may need temporary help leveling out your brain chemistry.  *All* of my medication levels had to be changed after going through surgical menopause.

Are you on any HRT?  

Give it time - it took me about 3-4 months after my final ovary was removed to stabilize.  Try ice packs on your abdomen too (will reduce the swelling and lower your pain levels).  

Terrible time of year to be going through something major but you aren't alone.  

Hang in there!!

[SimplyStar]

A good explanation to the family should bring the support you need. Get some sage and ginger teas to drink. Don't try to do too much too soon, rest when you can with your feet elevated. A small fan at night seems to help some also. Watch a good movie  or read a book, it helps take your mind off of how you feel. Don't get into arguments, just back away. Good Luck

[mels25]

I had same surgery on 11/17  I had left ovary removed along with 7cm cyst. I have been a crazy lady with all sorts of emotions. As i've learned our bodies need time to adjust. Don't listen to anyone else. They have no idea until they walk a mile in your shoes. Keep your head up and your shoulders back.

[cirella]

Hi there.  I'm sorry you're going through this.  Did you have an ovary, or both, removed?  You may be going through hormonal changes until your body adjusts.  Others may not understand this and you are not able to "just get over it".  You really have no control over it.  You will start to feel better in a month or so.  Seems like a long time, but each week will be better.  I am 5 weeks post op from a laparascopy, cyst and ovary removed.  I do have a remaining ovary but my body is still recovering.  I'd say I'm 90% better though.

Hope you feel better!
Lori