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Send some LOVE to Becky {tybear}

Becky is going through a really rough time right now, she needs our love and encouragement.

I read your latest post on the caring bridge and I want you to know, that I know, you are a fantastic MOM and a super fighter. This time has to be very hard for you, You seen to take all this damn cancer throws at you and find ways to throw it right back. The pictures of you and TY are proof of who you are, a valiant and loving mother.  You matter to so many on the forum and I sure you know we are with you all the way through this latest fight.  Lets hope that this latest chemo does a fantastic job on shrinking those tumors.  Love you hun, Marty
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In some ways I agree with Lisa and Maurita and others I don't.  I agree that feeling the way you do and letting everyone around you know is fine but, I don't think that all of it should be hidden from Ty.....he needs to see that you are angry but that you are not giving up.  Kids understand a lot more than we give them credit for and if  you don't express how you feel how is he going to know that his anger and hate towards this disease is okay....Ty knows what is going on around him, just like most kids do.  
I am going through a horrible time with my mother right now, and although I don't have my own kids, I have two god children that I am with all the time...they are 6 and 4..they see me cry, they hear that I am angry....but it is explained on a level that they understand and they too now tell me that they are angry that there Bubba (that is what they call my mother) is sick and going through what she is going through.  Life isn't always grand, and kids need to see that too.

Thinking about you...and if you weren't angry you wouldn't be normal.

Love,
Pam
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U hav been an inspiration 2us all. May God grant u da strength 2face dis battle head on. U r in my thoughts &prayers. Lotts of love
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U hav been an inspiration 2us all. May God grant u da strength 2face dis battle head on. U r in my thoughts &prayers. Lotts of love
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1046985 tn?1305117048
Oh Becky, this just isn't fair. I agree with Lisa, its not healthy to pretend to those around you (except maybe Ty), that alls good, when you just feel like ****. A person can only take so much, and you've had more than your share and some. All I can say is just take anything they offer to ease your pain and suffering. May somehow, somewhere you find some relief from this constant torment, gentle ((((hugs)))) love Maurita.
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Becky,
As always my thoughts are with you. I check your blog regularly and my heart went to out to you when I read your last post. Just hold on to the good memories like Disney. I hope the oncologist has some ideas.
Bron
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Becky,

I don't know you and have just read this.  So sorry to hear about the pain and grief you are going through.  You and your son are in my thoughts and prayers.
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