Hi,
Every case is different and borderline is DIFFERENT to benign and cancerous forms. It really depends on your individual staging and case. Do you have any extra ovarian disease? If so are the implants non invasive or invasive? or is it all contained to your ovary? These things you need to discuss with your specialist currently I still have my left ovary and will have everything removed once i have children in the next 18months however after it I am having a full hystorectomy, removal of ovary and pelvic clearance just to be safe. I go for a laporoscopy in 5 weeks to ensure everything is okay (as this is the only way for borderline cancers most of the time) if everything is okay then i go on IVF, if not I honestly would NOT hesitate to get everything out even though I am so young, as your life should take priority.
Also I was advised that there is no evidence that IVF or pregnancy affects borderline cancers in a negative way. but nothing is certain. In fact they think pregnancy is good for borderline disease.
BEST OF LUCK with everything.
Mel x
Dian had the guts to say what I was trying to imply in a round about way. Mine was taken out too late. Now I am in a fight for my life. A fight that statistics say I can't win for long. Your girl needs you. Marie
If you were my daughter there would be no question........ get it all out of there......I would want you to see a gynocologic oncologist just as soon as possible. That is who should perform your surgery as well. Your little girl would tell you the same ...... the one person she needs is you. Remember when you were only eight? How much did you love and depend on your mom?
YOU HAVE ONE CHANCE TO GET IT RIGHT THE FIRST TIME........and you only get to catch it early once as well.
Please don't wait. Your little girl needs her mommy and you deserve to have a long and healthy life.
Peace.
dian
You do have alot to think about. This is a difficult decision, I am sure. I have a form of mucinous cancer that is low grade and also uncommon. Mine was found too late for a great chance of recovery. Whatever you decide I hope you don't wait a long time. I wish you the best. Marie