I am fairly new here. I was DX'd with OVCA in Dec. of last year. I too am not sure what happened. I just want to say how much this site has helped me thru at first was a nightmare. Now after 4 months of all the stuff I have gone thru and lived thru, It makes me sad on one hand that someone would do something like that and yet I feel somewhere in me happy that they truly are not ill or whatever they made up. I am glad this is a strong site and I thank you again and appreciate what you have done for me. Kerry
Hi Gia,
I know you said to forget all this and move on. I'm new here so I'm not too sure about what is going on but can get a fair idea.
I just wanted to say to everyone that this site has been a God send for me. I was so confused and scared about tests and doctors and what they may or may not say. You ladies have been absolutely amazingly supportive, kind and informative. I am still waiting for results but I feel confident that now I am at least informed about everything.
So Thank you gals
Cheers
Kim
Welcome home Gia
; ) butterflytc
Ok....feeling better now and will not let these ------ ruin my relationship with any of you. Lets move on and not discuss it any longer ...our energy needs to be focused on the main issues here and that is caring and giving positiveness to the women that need it..I am over it!!! What comes around in this world goes around and that is justice enough for me...I am sorry if I got so worked up and upset any of you..We need each other and we have each other and that is my purpose to be here!! Love you all, Gia :)
Gia,
I am new to this forum as well and have been looking for support for my mom. This site with everyone's comments and suggestions has given me hope when I have felt none. To me, that is absolutely priceless.
Please don't stop contributing there are kind souls that truly need the advice of others that have seen this path.
Karen
If we lose you then the betrayer has won and many people in the here and now and in the future (us included!!!!) all lose Even though I don't really know you, I've seen your posts and know you a a genuine caring person with a kind soul. Please, reconsider!
Hugs,
Shari
Gia - you'll be posting cause we won't let you go!!!!
I plan on this being my last post about the whole ordeal. I know that you were one of the many who read my journal and commented. I f need be, read it again. This is what had me so upset in the first place. I was more than appalled when I found out. i went through a whole range of emotions. I felt hurt, betrayed, used, and generally made a fool of. But I refuse to let a few sick people run me off. They should not have the power to make any of us want to leave. As I said in my journal and as Deandra said. We are fighting CANCER and we are doing it together. If we can stick together and fight cancer then we should be able to stick together through anything. If they succeed in running people off, they will have gotten the best of us. And that is the last thing that we want. We want to be able to show them that their sick little games are not going to damage this forum. I hope you will think about it all and reconsider your thoughts.
Love Chris
Please stay, do not let them win.
butterflytc
Thanks...For some reason I am having a very emotional distraught 2 days and this has just put the icing on the cake..I try so hard to be a good person and cherish what I have. The thought of someone "inventing" sickness, death, etc...is beyond belief to me!!! I could have left this forum after knowing I was cancer free but I became so attached to all of you....I feel for all you ....Becky, you know how much I care!!! I feel so silly to even let this issue effect me! I guess watching my own mom pass when I was 20 has made me more sensitive to these issues and knowing someone can get away with what they did has upset me terribly...I guess in time this to shall pass...gia :)
Gia ... I am new here. What happened here happens on other forums. I've been a member of several. This will pass. I'm very sorry for all the hurt that you and the other members feel. Think it over. Your friends will miss you.
Becky ... I hope you give me a chance and get to know my story. There is so much to share with one another. Hope to hear from you.
Ireneo ... I agree with you. Once the bad taste is gone, the sweet taste will return.
Everyone should pray for healing this forum. If I can be of any help, please contact me.
Cindy
Gia no!
No no no
Do not leave the forum because of this PLEASE.
I have not said anything about this publically so far, in fact I have been very tight lipped about the whole sorry affair and I still wont discuss it in here - no way - BUT I am the one who 'really' took the brunt of this (oh boy trust me) so please ....if I am not leaving neither should anyone else. Be angry as he** but dont you leave dont anyone leave.
Anna XXXXXXXXxx
There are still many women coming here for answers and support, most are sincere and scared, if we desert them to whom will they go too? Forget about the falsehoods and move on, these women need us to offer what we are able to give. I may not answer every post, but those that sound true to me I will be glad to answer. I am an old lady as you all know, I have run up against false people many times in all those years, I put them aside like a bad apple and grab a bunch of sweet grapes, all washed and clean and ready for me. That is what my friends are on here, washed, clean and ready for love. Marty
There are users out there that take advantage of the nice folks. That shouldn't stop us from being who we are - folks that care about others and willing to reach out. Yes, we might get burned once in awhile but the world needs more folks like you and the other gentle women on this board. Take the time to clear out the bad taste from that rotten apple and then come back to share your sweet words. Hugs,
Gia...this is the point though, that we're all trying to make - don't let one sick person run us off here! I feel the same as you...I won't post as much either, probably only to the people whose stories I really know, but I'm not going to leave. That would mean that "they" won. Take some time, reflect about it all and realize that there are people here who need your support...myself, being one of them.
This is a public forum..truth is, I'm sure things like this happen every day. I guess we can chalk it up as a (hard) lesson learned.
Take care,
Becky