Sounds like the symptoms I'm experiencing with ovarian cysts as well.
The "tender to the touch" is usually after it ruptured.
I'd go to the doctor and insist for an ultrasound to check it out.
There are the exact symptoms I had for 7 whole months while being misdiagnosed with bladder infections. Turns out I have two Ovarian Cysts and one is as big as my uterus. I have learned from this to demand other testing when you feel like something is just not right. I am so glad I finally went to my OBGYN and got a trasnvaginal ultra sound...get that done so you know if something is wrong inside!
Thanks for ur help guys :) I am seeing the doctor on fri discuss having a scan. It would have been this week but they decided to take some swabs to rule out any infections
You should ask to have an Ultrasound right away to get some answers. You could have Ovarian Cysts which are nothing to fool around with unless they cause no pain....trust me - they rupture and can cause way more pain and possible complications. You also sound like you might have a lot of Fibroids - maybe a lot of lttle ones. Your symptoms sound similar to mine - and that was my problem also at one time, Dozens of little Fibroids with one big one on my left Ovary. Just get the Ultrasound - OK? :-)
Sounds like fibroids to me cos I had ovarian cysts and had none of ur symptoms